I have this problem where my friends and i are being bullied during P.E. and we do not like to fight.
2006-12-05 15:21:44 · 25 answers · asked by Gamer G 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ignore them, but not just that. act as though you couldn't care less. that will tick them off like you have no idea! when they say something nasty make a smart remark as if the nasty thing they said means nothing to you. smile and giggle amung your friends and make sure they see that you are having fun with your friends and not the bullies. eventually they will think that what they are doing isn't bothering you. if they have no button to push they won't stick around trying to push your buttons.....
2006-12-05 15:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by jess l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your responsbility to tell a teacher, an adult, your parent(s) or the principal. If it extends outside of school, the police need to be called. In all reality, if you were an adult and another adult was bullying you (legally that's harrassment) - they could get in trouble. But in school - you shouldn't have to feel the way you do. I applaud that you and your other friends don't like to fight. That's very good 'cause violence doesn't solve anything. If anything, it may make things worse because of the chance of retaliation. But all the adults that are there at the school -- it's their responsibility to provide a safe environment for all kids. So, next time this bully messes with you and/or your friends - don't be ashamed -- tell someone. This bully may be messing with a lot of other kids too and they too, are too afraid to go tell. Make that move and I bet a lot of other kids will be very grateful to you that you done that. I sure wish you luck.
2006-12-05 15:26:45 · answer #2 · answered by apache_lizz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
since the bully is to big to bash, use your brain. do a bit of homework, find out what the bully likes, and put that thing in between you two. example : YOu just found out milt, the bully is into death cars for xbox or what ever. you mention outloud to someone else, Man, I'm really having trouble getting past level one on death cars for xbox. bully, over hears and gets a chance to show how he knows the cheat codes. you thank him lot for being so smart, and suddenly he's not looking at you like a punching bag any longer, but as a possible friend.
the idea is rough but it's a start dude. change the big guys focus and redirect his energy. a big bully on your side might be handy some day.
peace out,
frankie chocolate
2006-12-05 15:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by frankiechocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to stop a bully is to stand up to him. I know many people will respond by saying, tell a teacher, does anyone know anytime that has actually worked? A bully picks on people because he/she can, you take that away and they have nothing. Ask someone, father, older brother, someone for some self defense tips. No violence isn't always the answer but sometimes it is the only answer. And imagine all the self respect you will gain if you just stand up to him.
2006-12-05 15:24:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to back off. The reason you are probably getting bullied is because you look gullible. ( no offense, i don't know you so it might not be true) Its all about attitude, show that your not gonna take any crap anymore, you don't necessarily have to fight, but make them think that you will if you have no other choice. Also, for join some kinda martial art, just in case that bullie wants to fight, then you can show that you don't deserve to be picked on.
2006-12-05 15:26:48 · answer #5 · answered by yomonkeysdaddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand not liking to fight. I don't think many people LIKE to fight, but there comes a time in your life where the flight part of the fight or flight mechanism is going to burn out and you are gonna have to stand up for yourself and fight. I say you and your friends beat the bullies @$$e$ real good, and then they will leave you alone.
2006-12-05 15:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by outspoken 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bullies are people who are insecure about something or another. You don't have to fight but don't let them do that to you either. They way you can rid of bullies is the same way you can get rid of fear...face them. They will not stop until they realize that A) you are not afraid of them. and B) That you are no longer affected by their ignorance. There are ways to solve issues without violence.
2006-12-05 15:30:31 · answer #7 · answered by Moon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that these bullies get a thrill out of picking on you. So, unless you replace that thrill with something else, they will continue to pick on you until you either fight them and give them what they want, or you need to discuss this with a teacher.
2006-12-05 15:25:15 · answer #8 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First dont be scared. You have to attack them mentally. Im assuming there physically superior to you. I'd start off by attacking there sexuality. bullies are always homophobes. Say something like "All the females in this school and your focused on a group of dudes??? makes me wonder man..." Then i would advise you to duck pal. Good luck.
2006-12-05 15:27:39 · answer #9 · answered by John T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them and try to void them at any cost. If that doesn't work go tell, Or stand your ground and fight. A person can be pushed to far before they blow up.
2006-12-05 15:28:02 · answer #10 · answered by Babie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋