my vagina hurts and i cant remember what happened at a party?im scared i didnt drink but i cant remember a thing???? i just remember people telling me i "fell asleep"?im confusedIM 14 and im a virgin and didnt drink what happened? i was at a friends birthday party 2 grown ups were upstairs and the people were partyting we are all 13-14..like17 guys and there were about 15 girls ?
2006-12-05 14:35:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
everyone said i went to the couch and stayed there asleep. but i fell real strange..and the party was outside and i waas inside though io dont remember doing that .the last thing i remember was going to the bathroom!
2006-12-05 14:47:45 · update #1
the party was 2 hours ago
2006-12-05 14:48:12 · update #2
did you drink anything, soda water, did you eat anything cake, anything at all? you should go to the doctor and be check out right away before you shower or do anything else. they will most likely be able to determine if you were raped, also if you were they can run blood tests to figure out if you were drugged, they can test you for sexually transmited infections and give you the morning after pill to prevent pregnancy, but you have to go now right away. some of the date rape drugs leave the body with in 24-48 hours. also healing will occur and your body will clean its self and there will be no evidence of a rape if it occurred. definitely do not wait if you think you might have been violated see a doctor. also where did you fall asleep, was it some places alone? did you have any friends that were with you or saw you the whole party? were you really tired or have you been sick? you know your self better than anyone else, are you the type of person that can fall asleep anywhere and stay asleep during a part? if you are not sure where to go i will list a few links.
edited to add: not all virgins bleed that is a myth some do not, in fact i have met 3 girls that did not bleed at all ever from sex.
2006-12-05 14:43:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well the only way to tell is go to the hospital and get an exam done if you are a virgin even if you use tampons they will be able to tell and they will be able to swabb you for any dna that the guy might of left be hind if you was raped. how long ago was the party? and when did you start to hurt? oh oh and if you go to the hospital to the er they will test you and see if there are any drugs in your system and if there is any traces of anything not sure hwat its called but there are date rape drugs guys put in chics drinks that make them sleep. so id go right now have your mom take you tell here you fell a sleep at your friends house and dont know if anything happened to you or not but you want to know for sure. and no you dont always bleed or have pain when you lose your virginity. i know i was a sleep one night just a sleep not drugged or anything and woke up with some creep on my back. and i was only 12
2006-12-05 22:44:22 · answer #2 · answered by cute redhead 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When was this? You should tell your parents (or somebody in authority if they don't listen), so you can find out what happened! They should take you to a doctor to see if there is any signs of violation.
Someone could have slipped a pill in your drink when you weren't looking; that's very common and it takes mere seconds.
Don't just ignore it. I sincerely hope that there wasn't someone at the party who would take advantage of you like that!
Hugs & kisses. oxoxoxoxoxox
May God watch over you.
2006-12-05 22:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer Z 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you were drugged somehow. The only way to find out if you were raped is to go see a doctor, a Gynecologist to be exact. They will perform a Pap Test to see if there was any forced entrance in you recently.
2006-12-05 23:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a virgin, The first time you have sex you bleed ALOT! So if there was blood the there is no question. However stranger things have happened, so if you are really concerned you need to go to a doctor right away, and tell them your situation.
2006-12-05 22:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You sound like maybe you were drug. you need to save the clothes your wore that day and DO NOT wash them. Maybe they can test your underwear for siemen. and you DO NOT have to bleed right after sex. Not everyone has a hymen. Go to a doctor and tell him what happened. and your parents.
2006-12-05 23:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by HeavensAbove 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can go to the doc.- they can tell you if you've been penatrated - but even if you were raped- there wouldn't be any evidence of it happening, since you've wanted so long. PLus if you were and you were with friends- surely someone would have saw and told you.
2006-12-05 23:17:24 · answer #7 · answered by answers4questions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg im so sorry this happen to you my prays are with you and your family id go straight to the doctors get checked fast
i can only imagen what you are feeling
right about now if you have evidence of being rape they can charge that person with that crime it dont matter what age
the guy is.
2014-03-23 16:27:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not take a shower i know you feel very dirty but the person may have left some dna there on your body so when the doctors do the rape kit they can find his or her dna
2006-12-05 23:11:27 · answer #9 · answered by Danny m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go see a doctor
2006-12-05 22:37:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋