My son is 15 years old and is openly gay and in a gay relationship. how should i tell him that being gay is evil and where should i go to put him up for adoption?
2006-12-05 14:33:10 · 15 answers · asked by Ma'h Bal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First, sit down in talk to him MAN to MAN because he is thinking he is one anyway tell him right from wrong and let him know what him happen if he don't change this read it from the Bible this will help alot to show him the right way and also Pray don't send your son any way just talk to him maybe he will change after the talk.
2006-12-05 14:40:53 · answer #1 · answered by D'Asia 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Why would you put your son up for adoption? There is no reason to abandon him like that just because he has a different sexual orientation. He is still your son and you love him right? You need to get over the fact that he is gay because he will never change. What you should do is support him because you could really screw him up for life. He could end up resenting you and you will sever a tie with the person you created.
2006-12-05 14:37:21 · answer #2 · answered by vruiz16 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that putting your son for adoption is a good idea because he is not any different just because he is gay, he will still be the same person he always was. you have to learn to accept him for the way he is and not be embarrassed of him because he is gay, i think you wouldn't really like it if you had a mother and you turned out to be lesbian and she put you out for adoption just because of that would you like that? imagine how hard it is for your son to know that his own mother thinks of him as a disgusting creature on the planet that likes people of the same sex? being gay is not evil it is just the way he is if god made your son gay it is for a reason god didn't do it just for doing it he did it for a good reason and you should accept your son the way he is
2006-12-05 14:52:28 · answer #3 · answered by ILuvMe06 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can not do anything to stop your son from being gay, but you can help him to be a better person still. I think that is the question you should be asking yourself : how you will become the best parent you can be to a gay son. So that eventhough he is gay, he would still be a good person.
2006-12-05 14:41:46 · answer #4 · answered by sweetface 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh My gosh Lady. Im sorry but being evil is not gay, and you should not put him up for adoption just because he likes guys instead of girls. You should love your kids no matter what.
2006-12-05 15:30:50 · answer #5 · answered by sampoochgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you're not being serious. A parent should love their child regardless of their flaws, even though this is obviously a problem for you. You should talk to your son first, and share how this offends and hurts you. And if your son truly doesn't care, then first tell him the consequences, how he'll be cut off from you, etc., and then if he still continues without a show of care for what you think, then I guess it's up to you how to "disown" him. I'm sorry the thought of pushing away your son actually turned into a possible choice for you. I hope this works out, good luck.
2006-12-05 14:41:28 · answer #6 · answered by tdavis179@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I hope that you're kidding. Being gay isn't evil and putting him up for adoption now is extremely cruel as a parent. You shold accept your son and not be such a horrible parent.
2006-12-05 14:36:34 · answer #7 · answered by jreed3590 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to seek some help, maybe being gay is not what you wanted for your son, but it happens, and instead of supporting and loving him , you want to send him away, now your being just plain evil. You carried him , fed him, raised, him, clothed him, and many other things and now you want to throw it all away. Sorry baby, its part of life and I bet your son loves you with every fiber of his being, good luck in "your" future, you will need it.
2006-12-05 14:39:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, DON'T . . . . cause like . . .its not . . . You are aware the Bible was written 800 years after Christ died, right? Lets reverse this: How do I tell my parent, they're homophobic, and have no common sense???? Spend some time around any other animal species, you'll see homosexual behavior . . .and we are just animals . . . arrogant animals with opposable thumbs, and over-developed forebrains, but animals . . . JMO
2006-12-05 16:17:55 · answer #9 · answered by backroads 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you keep your opinions to yourself and let him make his own mind up. Then go jump off a bridge....and you are a parent? You can't be much of one if your hatred for gays overides your love for your own child..shame on you.
2006-12-05 15:26:01 · answer #10 · answered by Teresa O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋