In the resent past and resently I've seen Brendan take friends like Kyle,Paul,Stefan and anyone else a lift to or a lift back from somewhere. If I were to ask him,I'd get these kind of answers from him or later on if I were to follow up on my question.
"umm...perhaps...let me think about it."
"I can't...I'm busy...."
"I don't have enough money for gas..."
"I have to do something...."
" (no answer at all to me,just leaves off with Kyle,another person and then either Stefan or Paul.)"
Is it an interpersonal problem or something else when he does at me?
It makes me feel all the more worse,bad about myself and that I am doing something wrong. Or that he hates me...when he either says those things at me or doesn't say anything to me,but then is willing/has the time to give other friends lifts to and back home.
2006-12-05 14:21:49 · 4 answers · asked by Gadget 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2006-12-05 14:25:23 · update #1
He doesn't sound like a real friend. Ditch him.
2006-12-05 14:25:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gadget I take it you are a girl. He may think you are hitting on him and he is not into you that way. Maybe he likes you but needs a guy around and does not want you alone in the car.
Maybe it is as simple as his friends teasing him or maybe he likes you but isn't ready yet and he does not know how to approach it.
if you are a couple it could be him thinking you are trying to monopolize his time and he is just trying to get some "guy" time
just give him space. do you only talk to him when you need someone to give you a lift? does he see you as someone who is just using him
So many possibilities
2006-12-05 14:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by G L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he does should have no affect on how you feel about yourself. He obviously has a problem. Is this your bf? If so, time to drop him. I would say he is doing something he is trying to hide; doing drugs, seeing other females, he is gay, etc.,etc. Whatever the reason, I suggest you confront him, telling him you either want straight answers or end the relationship.
2016-05-22 22:57:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he doesn't want to. Go find somebody who WANTS to be with you!
2006-12-05 14:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋