We became friends though other friends and one time we were at a dance and he wasn't dacing, so I got him to dance. I later found out he thought it was our friend who he liked. Anyway, I started to like him. I went to camp with him and another friend. Then later we became best friends. He was always telling me the girls he liked, so at first I didn't think he liked me at all then I was starting to wonder because he seemed like he did because he was firting and cuddling with me. So I asked him to a dance and he said he didn't dance and he ended up going with another girl I found out he liked. I also asked him to dance in my room but he refused. He was still cuddling with me and he kissed my hand which I thought was cute at the time. I tried to kiss him on the lips and he shot me down. Then he went to a dance with another friend and she said he didn't like her more than friends. So I got fusterated and stopped liking him alltogether. Then my friend told me he liked me!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
2006-12-05 14:18:39 · 13 answers · asked by Angel_Baby_Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Then also he said he missed me and missed cuddling with me since we had stopped!?!?!?! I still call him one in awhile and write him on myspace a few times and he seems glad to here from me, but I am the only one who calls and writes !?!?!?! Then I ran into him when I was out and about and he said he wants me to come to his work !?!?!? Which I don't want to do unless I need something. Why does he want me to when he seems like he didn't really want to be friends much anymore????? Is he just trying to be nice???
2006-12-05 14:38:50 · update #1
ok. its not your fault, we(i and others) are guys. ill tell it to you like it is. we are weird. guys like to make sure they know who they are going to say they are with. there could have been one of two reasons why he was trying to confuse you: 1. He was (plain and simple) being a prick and purposefully trying to mess with your head, or 2. he was just seeing how you would react with him going out with other girls. Also, in a guy's mind going to a dance with another person isn't going out with them, so he may not have been trying to hurt you.
2006-12-05 14:24:24 · answer #1 · answered by platinumdragonfire93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what i think...he likes you, he thinks you are fun and he likes your company, but he doesn't seem like he wants to commit to you. He is keeping you in the "friend zone" because he wants you to always be there while he still sees other girls. and that sucks it puts you in a weird position, that can hurt. I recommend that you still be friends with him, but stop cuddling with him, and flirting and dancing and all that stuff. Treat him the way you would treat a girlfriend or a brother. that way he will realize if he wants all that stuff from you he has to drop all the other girls and be with just you. if you act like his girlfriend and say you are his friend that kinda makes him think that he can keep you as a friend and get all that stuff from you and still have someone else. So try what i said, but don't sit around and wait for him get out there talk to other guys and see who else is out there! that may even make him jealous and want to be with you, i mean don't do it just for that reason meet new guys to make yourself happy, not to make him jealous! Good luck!
2006-12-05 22:26:12 · answer #2 · answered by Bubby'sGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all poor you serious talk about head f**k....he defo is giving mixed signals....right you have 2 choices either ask him out right honesty is the best way but be prepared for what he might say Hun.....2nd dont ask him and just keep ya distance so that means if he does want you he will come to you. BUT dont be his shoulder it seems to me you are his safety net wen nothing else is available(i could be wrong) just be wary.....ask him what you got to lose really!!!! GOOD LUCK!!
2006-12-05 22:23:34 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if he is way more confused then you need. All through this you have spoken about one guy. This one guy is seeing several girls. The math in this isn't looking to good girl. Find someone who wants 1 person to be involved with not a dozen.
2006-12-05 22:29:49 · answer #4 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gal this guy is definitely taking you for a ride..ignore him and just go about your business, i think he prefers alot of girls to be chasing him, he probably find thrilling and fun!! if he likes you he wouldn't be doing this to you like checking out other girls ..HELLO!!
2006-12-05 22:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by ginger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah, guys have major problems. (This happened to me too!)
Ever thought of telling him how you feel? Talk to him about it, see if he likes you or not. If you don't you'll be wondering it for a long time. You'll never know until you ask.
2006-12-05 22:21:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that sounds fusterating. It sounds to me like he is playing games,
2006-12-05 22:21:02 · answer #7 · answered by karma_goddess84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jeez... sounds like the typical middle school thing, no offence if you arnt in middle school....
sounds to me like he cant make up his mind. either that, or hes trying to get to you through other people. also it sounds like hes hoping you will ask him out, instead of him having to risk getting shot down. as for you getting shot down about the kiss, i cant say.
2006-12-05 22:22:05 · answer #8 · answered by acampion2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask direct questions nicely and demand answers.
2006-12-05 22:20:47 · answer #9 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants you for a booty call.
2006-12-05 22:23:14 · answer #10 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋