If you're bisexual and you're dating a girl and a guy at the same time, is it really cheating??
2006-12-05 13:25:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Instead of saying a girl and a guy, say people. You are dating two people at the same time. That is cheating.
2006-12-05 13:34:17 · answer #1 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do they know about each other? Are they okay with it? Are you in open relationships with them? ARE THEY OKAY WITH IT?
If the answer to any of these questions is no, then YES, you are cheating. It doesn't matter what their genders are. Don't kid yourself, and don't hurt people just because you're justifying cheating because you're bisexual. I'm bi, and I would NEVER cheat on anyone. If you want an open relationship where your partner will be okay with you seeing other people, go find one.
2006-12-05 21:54:26 · answer #2 · answered by jenjubatus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!!!! How can I get this through to people?
If your partner(s) do not know that you are involved in another relationship, then it is cheating. Doesn't matter what your sexual orientation is, or the gender of anyone involved. Everyone who's part of it needs to know what's going on. If they don't, you're cheating. If they do, then it's just polyamory, and that's fine.
Don't cheat on your significant others.
2006-12-05 22:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it is cheating at all. If you are just dating them and are not exclusive then who cares. If you do however become serious with one of them then you need to let both of them know what is going on... Most guys will find the situation as a very big turn on. lol GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-05 23:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by itza_mea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is cheating. Someone is going to get their feelings hurt because you're mean.
2006-12-05 22:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by Suga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they think you're not dating anyone else, it's cheating
2006-12-05 23:10:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I like blondes and brunettes, would it be cheating if I were dating them both at the same time?? Think about it.
2006-12-05 21:50:49 · answer #7 · answered by FORNIDO 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Only if they don't know about each other. Cheating and monogomy are the same in ANY sexual relationship I would think.
2006-12-05 21:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by tallred63 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you promised commitment to either of them. It doesn't matter what the gender is, if you are not being true to your commitments, you are cheating.
2006-12-05 22:41:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating is cheating you should see one or the other not both
2006-12-05 21:30:48 · answer #10 · answered by angel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋