Why are some Virgo people so selfish and self-centered?

Question

I am NOT saying that this is all Virgos but the ones that I encountered (including my man) that can be very selfish. Especially when they are angry. Does anyone know why that is?

Answer 1

not really most of them i know are sweeties. But i think you mean when they have a tendency to criticize people. Trust me that is easy to handle especially if you know the person well. Simply just bring up past mistakes they have made and watch the look on their face when you do it. Never again will they criticize you again. I have a brother and a older cousin who are guilty of this. All they need as a reality check of their faults. But i love the fact they are so driven and focused. Always smiling and very giving. Most of them i know are very funny. They rule on being logical and rational, which is goodin my book. I know alot of cancers can't stand them. I love em!

Answer 2

I am sorry to say that we are not selfish at all or self centered. Unless it is the men. We are very generous. I would give the shirt off of my back. I love making people laugh and my friends love hanging out with me... you would rarely know when a Virgo having a bad day... however if you piss on us... that quiet Virgo will turn on you...

Never a backstabber but we worry a hell of a lot. And yes we are pretty Sassy... that's how I got the nickname LOL

Answer 3

Virgo

Ruler: Mercury / Element: Earth / Mode: Mutable
Pole: Negative / Third: Individual / Half: Subjective

Virgo's Spiritual Goal
To learn to discriminate between destructive criticism and simple wisdom.

Embodiment of the individual in the world; problems of adjustment dealing with the world and others; perfection of your approach to life, development of mundane skills; ability to change to adapt to life better.

Service, helping, self-effacing; perfectionist, always seeking to improve, efficiency; practical, functional, interested in crafts and projects; true to self in a simple, unassuming manner; reacts to defeats and setbacks by pulling back and altering approach, lacks confidence in the face of opposition; lives up to duties and responsibilities; interested in maintaining the body as a fit vehicle; diet, exercise, herbs, etc.; aware of conflicts with others, of the give and take required by life.

Positive Factors
Virgos love any pagentry that gives them an outlet for their tightly controlled emotions. Hence they are delightful companions at these events. Virgos are discriminating and have a fine artistic taste and a wealth of information on many subjects. They are not coarse and do not waste money. Virgos are loyal to their friends and will be extremely kind, considerate, and helpful.

Negative Factors
Virgos are nervous worriers, and a friend who in some way feeds the worries will reduce Virgo to a nervous heap. Virgos can be cold and critical, so a friend who softens the barbed remarks with caring laughter will bring out the Virgo wit. Most Virgos find it almost impossible to admit they are occasionally wrong.


Love & Blessings
Milly

Answer 4

Virgos aren't self center per say, they are down to earth (tend to keep it real). Most mean well, but have a more grim approach to live. Think the opposite of the free spirited dreaming Pieces

Answer 5

I'm a virgo and i'm not like that. If your man is selfish and self centered dump him don't use his zodiac sign as an excuse!

Answer 6

Because most people have selfish tendencies. Zodiac signs are inconsequential and have no bearing on anything whatsoever.

Answer 7

i know what you mean....My husband divorced one...theyre analytical thinkers with very little romance always wanting to debate things...i dumped one for an Aries....firesigns are so much hotter and more interesting..

Answer 8

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