Ok i have a really attractive STRAIGHT friend. She knows i am Bi and always use to play up on the situation by flirting and leading me on. I have fallen for her once and got majorly hurt : ( We have once had an occasional hook up (no strings attached) thing that lasted for a few months until she got a boyfriend. I went out on a date on Friday night with my ex she messaged me asking what i was doing (i told her i was going out to movies and dinner) she started asking with who and that i dont tell her anything. Well on Sunday she asked me to come around and talk, i did and she told me that she wants to break up with her boyfriend because its not waht she wants. She said she want to be with a girl full time, and wants to know if i am interested (i know shes straight). It just seems everytime i am going to end up with someone she does this and it driving me crazy! i really like her as a friend and would love to have someone like her in my life but i dont know what to do? PLEASE HELP!
2006-12-05 12:02:42 · 8 answers · asked by Shes a Cookie 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
okay been there done this. but my problem was a little different.but i do have some thing to say.1) if she really like you she wouldn't alway come when you are happy are starting to date other poeple. it seem to me that she just want you when you don't want her. 2) this girl is not straight she should stop calling herself that because the moment she started messing around with you and liking it made her at least bi. so... think about that when you make you choice. 3) don't let yourself get played. and get hurt again. missing around with "straight" women will always mess with your head cause they can never really commit to you. not forever. it you just want a one month thing go for it. but if you value you her friendship i would tell you don't. trust me i don't this. 4) whatever you do. do it because you want it. not for her.
hope tis helped a little let me know how it goes.
2006-12-05 14:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by scared2fly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's unsure of what she is. She could be experimenting with being bi. A lot of people do this at least 1nc in their lives. Tell her you want a long term relationship and don't like her treating you the way she does.
2006-12-05 12:09:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
take the time to think which one you want to be with
if it's your "straight" go for it, but make sure she isn't toying with you this time
tell her you are interested but hurt the last time she dumped you for a guy and are a bit nervous of getting into a relationship with her.
If it's your ex tell your friend that you are trying to reconnect with him/her
2006-12-05 12:14:56 · answer #3 · answered by goldenbrowngod 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is curious herself and dont know how to handle a man and a woman, the only thing i can say is try to kick it with her and come on to her if she like it then talk to her about what she want
2006-12-05 12:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of of myself as a real , perpetually pal and that i will continuously be your pal . in case you reside authentic to me i would be authentic to you. in case you're fake to me , i will nevertheless stay authentic because of the fact i won't deny who i'm to you or all people .
2016-12-13 03:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like shes confused and teasing you too...i would leave that one alone but good luck to you....
2006-12-05 12:12:10 · answer #6 · answered by kelly r 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude God made men for women and women for men so you are the strange one
2006-12-05 12:21:20 · answer #7 · answered by likeskansas 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't make her gay
2006-12-05 12:07:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋