a friend of mine and i had a fight about a month ago, it only lasted one nigt, but we are not fighting anymore but have not talked since then.. how can i break the ice with her?
> we are (were?) just friends. I'm straight and she's a girl.
> we had grown distant before this, so thats why i can't just go talk to her
2006-12-05 11:54:20 · 12 answers · asked by itsALICE! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Invite her and a few other girls over for some type of girls only thing. That way you get to break the ice in a group setting without rehashing whatever the fight was about. when the party is over tell her that you are glad she came and that you don't want to end your friendship over anything. Now the ball is in her court.
2006-12-05 12:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by babydoll 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had the same exact problem & I know it may be hard to just talk to her, but it's the only thing you can do in a situation like this. Meanwhile, some others on here don't know how they'd deal with a problem like this because they've never faced it, so you may get a lot of answers like, "Just talk to her!", but I understand that's easier said than done. When you walk by her, smile at her a lot. Say hi a lot. Yes, this may be hard for you, but I'm pretty sure she'll say hi back & when she does, (here's an example of what to say>) "Your hair looks so cute today!" Yeah, maybe not the best line to say, but at least it will catch her attention 'cuz it's a compliment. When she says, "Thanks!", just smile & keep going. If she keeps talking, then that's great 'cuz it means she'd actually like to have a conversation with you. 20 years from now, you 2 may be looking back & laughing & being so proud of yourself for doing that 'cuz you would've never fixed the problem if you didn't just talk to her.
2006-12-05 12:13:27 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put everythign that you two fought about in the past ask her to go out with you for lunch and ask how were things with her stuff like that. In no time you guys w ill become friends again.
2006-12-05 12:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by hotblacanesemama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should invite her to go do something with you like shopping. that way u don't have to be pressured to say something every second and u can start off by talking about the clothes....it'll break the ice so u can talk about ur friendship
2006-12-05 11:58:19 · answer #4 · answered by blondie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and ask how she's been. Ask if there is anything new going on in her life. Tell her that you value the friendship and that you would like to work on becoming close friends again.
2006-12-05 11:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to her. Be nice to her. If she drops something pick it up. Just say something nice to her. If she doesn't respond, hang out with other friends and if she is a true friend she'll come around. There is a saying... If you love something let it go and if it returns it was meant to be yours. In this case it is your friendship.
2006-12-05 11:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by Gaby 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her up and ask her is she has any plans (have a date, time and an activity already picked out) and see if she would like to go with you. Nothing to extravagant or fancy, something you both use to like to do together.
2006-12-05 12:01:06 · answer #7 · answered by Feline05 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a couple other girlfriends together and invite her over for a girls night, do it in person so she can't just blow you off. sounds like you don't want to just break the ice, sounds like you want to bridge that gap that's grown between you.
2006-12-05 11:58:20 · answer #8 · answered by Katie M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say hi all the time to her or ask her questions. Sooner or later you guys will talk alot more and become friends.
2006-12-05 11:58:10 · answer #9 · answered by ~*♥Jessica♥*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what bothers her and discuss what usally gets you guys in fights and it should work out
2006-12-05 12:04:37 · answer #10 · answered by misskathleen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋