A few weeks ago, one of my best friends (we'll call her jill) told me that she could not be around me as long as I was with my fiance! (We were having problems at the time, which we are trying to work out) I really figured this would be something that would eventually blow over with her, after all we've been friends all for over 3 years. About 2 years ago, before I started dating my fiance, I was raped. The charges were dropped because it was my word against his, and they didn't have enough evidence to convict. Megan didn't know him but knew his name. SO last week I got on facebook and went to write a message to her about needing to get a pair of shoes I had left at her house. I saw where she had added my rapist to her friends!
2006-12-05 11:52:16 · 8 answers · asked by Autumn C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am so sorry you had to go through what so many other women (including myself) have. Being raped is no joke. It's alot to deal with and honestly, If you consider this girl a friend you are wrong. No matter who you accuse (even if it was her best friend) of rape - if she was a friend she would stick by your side and disassociate herself with the accused. Maybe she was in on it? These days anything is possible darling. Watch your back, take care and keep your eyes open. God Bless and Good Luck. !!
2006-12-05 11:56:14 · answer #1 · answered by Sasha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A true friend would come foward with the name of your rapist if she has him on her friends list or whatever. If she is truly your friend she would do that for you. From what i am read here, she didn't come forward and she is jealous of your finacee because im only guessing here is that you pay him more attention and she wants all of your attention. I say dump her as a friend and spend as much time with your man cause you two will tie the knot one day. And don't invite her to the wedding cause she will ruin your day.
2006-12-05 19:59:24 · answer #2 · answered by hotblacanesemama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know it was the same guy, it could have been someone with the same name unless he had a name that stood out...either way i'd talk to her and see if she made a mistake or something before you throw away years of friendship.
2006-12-05 19:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by *♥lovebug♥* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE REALLY ISN'T A GOOD FRIEND IF SHE ADDED YOUR RAPIST TO HER LIST.
I'D SAY NO KICK HER TO THE CURB.
IF SHE WAS A TRUE FRIEND SHE WOULD STAND BY YOU,AND TELL HIM TO GET LOST.
WITH A FRIEND LIKE THAT YOU DON'T NEED AN ENEMY.
2006-12-05 19:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by celestialangel43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her what is going on with that rapist first and if the answer is lame....get rid of her. But do you even have to ask? Why would she add him to her contacts?
2006-12-05 19:57:35 · answer #5 · answered by Pinkie_&_the_Brain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u saying that your fiance is the man that raped you? if so, your friend should stay alway! and so do you. you saw what now?
2006-12-05 19:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u a girl or a boy?
anyway, no don't be friends with her
2006-12-05 19:55:37 · answer #7 · answered by Lion_Luver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is hot yes not no
2006-12-05 19:53:56 · answer #8 · answered by maxooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋