i have a boyfriend right... and we have been goin out for almost three months ((oo biggie)) (NoT rElLi) and i relli love him... but the thing is... i thank i got a thang for one of my buddies. we have been relli close since like sixth grade and i think i like him... when i'm around him, i get that lil feelin yah kno... but i don't want to give up my boyfriend for my best friend. i relli relli do luv my boyfriend and would do anythang for him, but i don't kno what to do cuz i like my friend. HELP!!
2006-12-05 11:51:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
then you dont like him as much as you think you do.
2006-12-05 11:53:43 · answer #1 · answered by Joey Joe, yo 5 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Make a decision because it is not fair to your boyfriend that you are having these thoughts about a friend and you are probably telling him "he's just a friend". How you make that decision is by asking yourself is my boyfriend my best friend, is the other guy your best friend....If you answer yes to either of these there's your answer. If no is the answer for both, then ask yourself which one would stay with you and be there for you if you got really sick. If the answer is neither, then neither one is "the one". So then it doesn't matter....Where you get your yes is your answer.....Old and Wise
2006-12-05 20:04:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont love your bf ok it takes a long time to develope love it is just puppy love. And if you (love) him as much as you say then why do you like sum1 else? If you have feelings for another guy then you 2 arent right 4 each other. Date you best friend sheesh it's obvious.
2006-12-05 19:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by britt_hearts_green_day 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Put each ones name on a piece of paper. drop them in a hat and pick one. That's the boyfriend for now. Save the other for later.
2006-12-05 19:55:23 · answer #4 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you sure you love your boyfriend? If you really, truly loved him, you wouldn't have such strong feelings for someone else. You know your friend better, so maybe he is the one you should be with.
2006-12-05 19:54:10 · answer #5 · answered by happyha31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont see u and ur boy freind going any where, you should probably break it off with him. then depending on how close ur freind and boyfriend, wait a while then see if there's anything that could happen between u two.
2006-12-05 19:58:56 · answer #6 · answered by nyc baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should ask urself if u really do love ur boyfriend...or if ur just scared of not having him as an option. u need to decide if u have stronger feelings for ur boyfriend or for ur friend.
2006-12-05 19:54:37 · answer #7 · answered by blondie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u never leave the one u love for the one u like......................if u really love ur boyfriend, then u shouldnt have any other feelings for some other guy.............but since u do......maybe u shouldnt have a boyfriend..........& if u dont want to gibe up ur boyfriend then try not to hang out as much with ur friend to see if the feelings r really there for him................its a lil messed up but good luck hun
2006-12-05 19:55:14 · answer #8 · answered by ~i love my boys~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
keep your best friend as a firned, if you go out and it doesnt work...you lost your love (boyrfirned now) and your best friend...that would suck...jsut be friends and laugh together and hang out but def stay with your current boyfriend...i would hate to see you end up with nothing :/
2006-12-05 19:53:23 · answer #9 · answered by Jenifer M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stay away from your friend if you can, try to continue with your boyfriend, but definitely you must choose.
2006-12-05 19:53:37 · answer #10 · answered by jabbergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch dont dump him and try 2 4get bout tha otha guy
2006-12-05 19:53:18 · answer #11 · answered by (¯`v´¯)HEY!(¯`v´¯) 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋