Faking... yes, no, maybe so... does he know?

Question

do you "fake it" during sex? does he know? How can you convince a man that you are enjoying it when you don't or aren't?

Answer 1

ohhh this is a great question.. well i would say when i was between the ages of 16 and 18 i wasn't to open with new sexual positions so yea i faked it alot and none of them knew.. as i got older i started to experience more with sex and i started to open up, by 21 i was just to into in and way to curious so i explored myself and boy did i learn alot.. and once i knew what i wanted and where i needed it, i would just tell him, lets stand or bend me over or let me ride you like a wild bull so now i dont have a problem with getting off.. now my problem is trying not to get off so many times during one sexual experience with my man.. so i would say if you have to fake it, try playing with yourself and learn what you like.. cause faking just takes away from even having sex.. i know in some situations you might have too.. but dang girls, get to know yourself so your not spreading your legs and lips for no reason.. good luck and best wishes!

Answer 2

I have faked it before. And men don't usually have a clue. I agree with the other girl that mentioned being loud. Try doing some moaning and telling him how great it wasThat usually works. Don't go too overboard like in tv or porn! LOL
But if you are finding yourself having to fake it all the time, there is something wrong there. It should not be about just ONE person getting off.

Answer 3

I can always tell when my wife is faking it. There are physical involuntary things that happen to a woman's (at least my a couple of the ones I'd been with) body that cannot be done by faking it. It's an insult to be played for a fool like that!

The fake screaming and moaning is so pointless. I'd rather please her, I have all night to get her together. Wheather by tongue, penis, hands or feet, I know how to make her really orgasm. It's such a waste of her time.

If she's so stupid not to tell me what she needs to be pleased well... I got mine.

Answer 4

Sometimes. Not during but sometimes I will tell him later. Be totaling into it whether you want to or not and he will never know you are faking it. Don't go over the top or he will never believe it. Act as you normally would and even praise him a little during it and he will think he did a good job.

Answer 5

Faking it promotes bad sex. If you're having sex with someone who doesn't do what you need them to do, you either need to tell them and give them suggestions, or have sex with someone else.

I think too many women don't have the language/skills to be assertive about sex, and I think that's not to our benefit in the long run.

Answer 6

Don't fake it at all. If it doesn't feel good then tell him and show him what does feel good. Why do something you don't enjoy? Men both young and old tend to be eager to learn.

Answer 7

Every girl has faked it at least once...So don't feel too bad..The louder you get the more they think there doing a good job ..lol..

Answer 8

A mature and experienced man will know when you fake it.

Answer 9

Get bossy. If you aren't enjoying it then tell him what he needs to do to make that happen.
And yes they can tell.

Answer 10

no i dont even have sex but anyways sumtimes he know and sumtimes he doesnt certain guys do and others are clueless. If your not enjoying it you should just leave him or tell him u want to be more satisfied!
Hope i helped.
Good luck!