I think it is stupid and not worth me getting into. I have tryed to get a girlfriend but I gave up after 2 months. I am stupid and ugly, but everyone tells me different, but I want to beat myself up and think that way. I don't ever want someone to love me and I don't want to love someone. I just want to live alone, smoking cigars and drinking in the Carribean, with no one to try to ruin my fun. I don't want to get a girlfriend or get married. Girls piss me off with all their complaining and stuff, and I couldn't bear to live with that. If I did, I would probably beat the girl, as I like to be the dominant one, and I don't like people to tell me what to do. I don't like little kids, and if I had a wife, I would divorce her in a week max to make my parents cry and her to cry. I didn't have a bad childhood. No one deserves to love me, and I don't deserve to love anyone. I am a jerk, huh?
2006-12-05 11:25:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well I hear ya, there is no right answer to this question and I'm not going to tell you to get into the game and start trying to love someone again... but keep us informed
2006-12-07 07:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by Not Known To Me. The Voter ;~`}= 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are a jerk. A real jerk would never say it but I do think you are hurting inside. I wonder why you feel like you don't deserve to be loved? Everyone deserves love. You are acting out and you seem to be full of rage. There is a reason for that but only you know what that reason is. Take a good look in the mirror and tell yourself that you are special and that you deserve to have love in your life. You can still smoke cigars and travel but wouldn't it be nice to have someone you love to share that with. Take care.
2006-12-05 21:37:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anniedoll 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For some people, the married life just isn't for them. Or even relationships. If what makes you happy is being alone then be alone. But don't jump off a bridge like that first girl suggested. Thats just cruel for anyone to even suggest to another. The only way YOUR going to be happy is to live your life the way YOU want to. Maybe you hate love because you don't feel like you are worthy of it. You have to want it to get it. But love is complicating and can hurt. But if you feel like you would have physical or emotional anger tendencies towards another then maybe you should stay away from anything serious. That could actually get you into some legal trouble. So there is my input. Just my advice. Take it or leave it.
2006-12-05 19:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by mrd1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay, sounds to me like your looking for someone to pity you. Sorry, you already said you want to live alone, smoking cigars and drinking in the carribeans, with no one to try to ruin my fun. So do it or you are acting like a jerk to get people to pity you or be pissed at you. Either way, I just feel sorry for you. you really need to give it a rest. You should be careful what you wish for because it might come true with that attitude.
2006-12-05 19:49:13 · answer #4 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are just a different person that don't really care about anything but yourself. You have low self esteem and you have all these pitty party of no loves you or no one likes me or i'm to ugly. Relax dude, God didn't make junk. You are just afraid of being love because of all the bad things you see when love goes the wrong way. And if you cant stand being with anyone but yourself, than really, you are afraid of taking risk. Risk to see you kids go have a rough life, risk to see your girlfriend/wife go to another mate, risk to get hurt. Hey everyday is a risk to survive out there. Why don't you just live life and who cares!?
2006-12-05 19:46:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
why would u want to be this kind of person, have u had some sort of hurt happen to u in a relationship?life would be pretty lonely as one gets older not to have children or grandchildren around. when all u got is yourself and nothing more, they say no man is an island. u will find before u become an old man u will have to live with alot u don't want to. we all deserve love, think u will change your mind as u mature.
2006-12-05 19:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Counseling? NO your not a jerk...you will grow out of it...and if you keep on thinking like that you will do what you said! Girls are not horrible either are wifes or childrem stop blaming them...get over youself and realize you have a problem....(it must be with something about a girl) Know one out of know where becomes like that!
2006-12-05 19:32:13 · answer #7 · answered by Tess c 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I just wonder what made you not love yourself to think you're not worthy of anyone loving you. You seem so full of anger..I'm serious when I say it appears to be a mental issue, I'm not trying to be mean but you may have some real chemical imbalance that makes you feel so full of anger and animosity towards others.
How you feel today can change....
2006-12-05 19:34:57 · answer #8 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe because ur hesitant to see whats in store for you or because your not opened minded or you hate the thought of getting close to someone in that way
2006-12-07 15:58:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should try more than two months
2006-12-05 19:28:56 · answer #10 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋