I have been married for 7 years and in that time have had 4 babes. In that time we have moved house, though I'm not allowed carpet as the kids would wreck it, been bought a car, though I,m not allowed 2 learn 2 drive it and my husband has tried, to my knowledge, to have 3 affairs, one attempt got as far as a passionate kiss with a woman in a nightie, the last one with a girl who is young enough to be his daughter. There may be more I am unaware of. 2 weks ago I finally got the courage to throw him out, since then he has only worked late once, instead of almost every night, he still comes back most evenings 2 c the kids, Is a bloke that is like this worth giving another chance 2?
2006-12-05 11:22:42 · 15 answers · asked by redwinedownton 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should insist on couples counseling before you invite him back into your life completely. Get all of your concerns out and gain some independance. If he is willing to go along with counseling and honor your wishes to learn to drive, etc. then he may be worth it. If he doesn't, then move on and find happiness elsewhere! Good luck!
2006-12-05 11:25:53 · answer #1 · answered by Sharon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 affairs? No, he is not worth another chance. Sorry, sweetie, tht you have to go through this but there ARE men out there who will not only love you but also your children AND treat you will the respect you deserve.
Please if not only for yourself but to teach your children that self-worth is priceless, please don't settle for treatment less than you deserve. And as a mother of 4, you deserve A LOT better.
2006-12-05 11:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can truly answer this one. You just have to figure out if youre better off with or without him and go from there. Trust your heart and gut instinct on what to do with him. But after 3 attempts, I say youd be better off without a guy like this. Divorce him and sue him for everything youre legally entitled to. Good luck
2006-12-05 11:34:40 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to say as obviously I dont know how you feel about him but to me it sounds like he is holding you back big time! He cant have any respect for you and your feelings and is actively messing round with other people.Think about it... do you really need someone like this in your life?
He can still be a great father but by the sounds of i
t he is a terrible husband.
2006-12-05 11:31:45 · answer #4 · answered by tallie18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO do not give this cheating man another chance..He's playing you like a fool...and if you take him back he will keep on playing you ...The best thing you can do is move on..Don't lower yourself to his level
2006-12-05 11:28:23 · answer #5 · answered by ?Whiskey Girl? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only give him a second chance if he agrees to some counseling...it sounds to me like he is a control freak...and thats never a good thing....i wish u luck.
2006-12-05 11:29:01 · answer #6 · answered by Michele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be worth it but i dont think so
take it slow and still allow him contact with the kids whatever happens
2006-12-05 14:09:53 · answer #7 · answered by rachel d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the loser.
Your life would be much better without him.
2006-12-05 11:26:38 · answer #8 · answered by shimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go!!!!!!! sounds like an a**h*** and a dog remember once a cheat always a cheat!!
2006-12-05 11:40:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ughhh who would want to be with someone like that!? leave him...no chances
2006-12-05 11:35:41 · answer #10 · answered by Tess c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋