I wouldnt really consider myself one becuz im still with the guy i made my decision with!! but why do all these teenagers get rediculed for their decision is it really that bad to sleep w/ someone while ur in highschool?Everyone needs to have slept with someone at least once in highschool or u get made fun of. Especially if u've never had a boyfriend ur whole life!!
2006-12-05 11:16:31 · 14 answers · asked by cuteshowgrl01 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
the whole "needing to sleep with someone in high school or get made fun of" comment is ridiculus!...no offense...but if someone is not ready then they arent ready and shouldnt just give in because of the "norm"...i am 19 years old, in college, and i am still a virgin and I have not been made fun of for it...i have actually been praised because you dont find many virgins my age anymore...i dont consider you a slut...in my eyes a slut is someone that will have sex with a guy that they are not in a relationship with and will have sex with multiple guys...pressure is ridiculus these days and if you think you are being pressured into doing something sexually that you dont want to do then listen to what your mind is saying and follow what you believe not what others are doing...regret is the worst feeling and something like that...you can never get it back...think hard about choices like this...SEX IS NOT A REQUIREMENT TO GRADUATE HIGH SCHOOL!...and if you believe then you should take a step back and look at your mind set and choices apart from everyone elses!
2006-12-05 11:25:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What kind of school do you go to? I'm a senior in high school and I have never heard anyone be made fun of for being a virgin....its a respectable thing to be.
And the only girls (funny that it isn't guys also getting bashed for sleeping around) that get talked about are the ones that have multiple partners.
And by the way, from your question it sounds like you are 13 years old. Are you sure you know everything there is to know?
2006-12-05 11:25:23 · answer #2 · answered by Led*Zep*Babe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know where you get your facts from, or who you hang out with, but anyone with half a brain for their future would stay away from f***ing people until they have an education and a good job. "Young sluts" are ridiculed because they make stupid decisions about it on impulse and don't think that they might end up having a baby and spending the rest of their days unschooled, unhappy, and working in a supermarket mopping floors for minimum wage. That is, if they don't die early from an STD. So you decide if you'd rather get made fun of by those types of people or if you think it's better to wait until you get an education and job and find someone you truly think is worth it for you.
2006-12-05 11:28:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's only a stereotype, when you consider that plenty of younger moms, and I hate to mention it, are sluts(or irresponsible). They are not cautious, rush matters, and do not use defense whilst their existence rather is not rather steady sufficient to manage a youngster. It additionally does not aid whilst the daddy is out of the photo given that plenty of folks nonetheless appear at that within the conventional means; youngsters after marriage. Anyways, who cares what they suppose? You deserve any individual that would possibly not appear at you or deal with you favor that. I admire you plenty for all that you've performed for your self and your daughter. :] If others can not see that, it is their loss and are not valued at some time.
2016-09-03 12:00:27 · answer #4 · answered by lil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls can be sluts but boys can be too. I don't like it, but I'd say if you're going to do it, you'd better watch out for your sexual health and fertility. I didn't lose my virginity in high school. I didn't trust boys at all. And now, I'm glad that I didn't. In my freshman year, I knew three girls pregnant and they were all in the same class. My tocophobia kept me from losing my virginity for a loooong time.
2006-12-05 11:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by filia_san 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
''no offence'' but i don't see how someone would get made fun of, by not sleeping with someone. see, your talkin about while in ''highschool'' so i think the people who do sleep with people at a young age, should get made fun of. cuz thats a dumb choice right there! but i an't disin you or nothin im just sayin. oh! and what i think of young sluts is...... there nasty and they should take a better look at what there doin!!!
2006-12-05 13:42:48 · answer #6 · answered by *'apple bottom* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats just silly. no everybody does NOT need to sleep wth people in high school. thats giving in to peer pressure - that means you have no will or mind of your own - if everyone jumped off a bridge to their death -would you ?
someone who is promiscuous runs the chances of getting pregnant when they are clearly not capable of bringing a human being into this world, thye run of getting disease and spreading disease unwittingly. the act itself is not BAD. it's the irresponsibility in which it is done. and someone who sleeps around - is lacking something INSIDE Of themselves. Like a daddy or father figure (for the girl who sleeps around) - lacking self esteem. and lastly - no one wants to marry a slut
2006-12-05 11:20:38 · answer #7 · answered by bbq 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to sleep w/ someone. but my definition of a slut is: a girl who thinks she can get anyguy in her pants, a girl who goes out and gets drunk unattended and her friends dont give a ****, a girl who gets raped, a girl who will give it up to her guy just so he doesnt break up w/ her, a girl who wears like a 2" skirt, a girl who wears thongs when she even has her period, a girl who will let any guy touch her or let them do w/e...... you can see where im going. there are a lot of those in my school. the part where i said "who gets drunk and gets raped" actually happened in my school last year. and they were only 12 and 13! skanks.... so ya. your not a slut so dont worry.
2006-12-05 11:33:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its wrong, you should wait till you are married before you sleep with someone, im 17 and am saving myself for marriage, its not hard, just show self control come on, girls think if they sleep w/someone that it is meaningless but its not, God gave married couples sex so they could share it to show their love for one another,so they could be close, not just to do it with whoever whenever
2006-12-05 11:23:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first, you don't HAVE to sleep with anyone, it should be up to you. i think that if girls want to sleep around they should, but if they don't then don't. if they want to **** every guy in town, then fine let um, at least they're having fun
2006-12-05 11:21:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋