Especially if the girl keeps yammering on about wanting a baby?
2006-12-05 11:13:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
This is a double-edged sword. I had a vasectomy 20 years ago, and have no kids. I went though the same dating situation.
If you tell her, then she will likely do one of two things;
1.Bail
2.Give you a one night stand
It is probably best to tell her because the “Babie Rabies” will likely not go away. You are better off to be rid of her, because that is not somthing a woman gets over easily.
If she stays with you, she, and her family will beg you to get your vasectomy reversed.
2006-12-06 02:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by Marvin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about anyone else, but I always check a guy out down there. Vasectomies leave scars.
2006-12-05 12:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think he doesn't have to at first. But if they are going to get into a serious relationship he should tell her- especially if she wants a baby.
2006-12-05 11:17:48 · answer #3 · answered by baronboru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, if I were you i'd pull what I call a "Jenna Marbles". what's that? it is once you confront someone and ask them something immediately, no beating around the bush. So, I advise you bypass to him and actually seek for suggestion from with him and say: "Are you effective you want me?" attempt to get him to be thoroughly honest with himself, I wager he hasn't all people listen him out totally. do not kiss him or something. Be sweet, carry his hand and purely sit down next to him and communicate. perhaps that is all he needs. an undemanding communicate.
2016-11-23 18:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by merickel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yes he should cause the woman he dates maybe be a woman he may marry someday and she may want kids so beofre you get too close i would prob tell her on a second date so its not as hard if you tell her after a year .
2006-12-05 11:17:27 · answer #5 · answered by david j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, That's one of the first things you should tell your date.
2006-12-05 11:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by spir_i_tual 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! She needs to know that there is no chance to have a baby w/ you if that is something that is important to her.
2006-12-05 11:16:20 · answer #7 · answered by Wendy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guys should absolutely tell the girl. Isn't that obvious?
2006-12-05 11:36:13 · answer #8 · answered by THATgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Honesty is always the best policy.
2006-12-05 11:15:59 · answer #9 · answered by Fundough 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Dont want to get her hopes high for something you cant give her
2006-12-05 11:51:38 · answer #10 · answered by Lola B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋