I have a buddy who calls me first thing in the morning..and insists on calling at least 2 more times the same day..i love her dearly but.....
2006-12-05 11:11:49 · 21 answers · asked by xoxo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just be plain honest with her!!
2006-12-05 11:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have hard time telling people they are calling too much especially if they are good friends, What I do is screen my calls. I won't answer her calls for 2 days or so and then tell her I was very busy.
2006-12-05 19:15:49 · answer #2 · answered by jabbergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you answer the phone, tell her your sorry, but you can't talk right now & that you will call her back when you have time. Then call her back when you do feel like talking to her & mention while your talking, that your usually much to busy to have enough time to talk that often on the phone, but you will call her when you do have the time, & tell her its a waste of her time to keep calling you so often because you just don't have the time to talk most of the time. Good Luck!!!
2006-12-05 19:24:11 · answer #3 · answered by Sherrie L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you need a little time alone and dont want to talk on the phone for a few days.Then if she keeps calling then tell her you need to tell her something very important, then tell her that she calls way too much and ask her if she can call a little less and talk to you more at school.If that doesnt work then just tell her to stop calling so much or not to call at all.
2006-12-05 19:18:53 · answer #4 · answered by Renee L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this problem, because I've had it, too. I usually screen my calls now as a result. If she insists on continuing to call even after you don't pick up, you will need to tell her "I love you, but I am not as much of a phone person as you are!"
2006-12-05 19:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by Rebecca 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she calls the first time, tell her that you have a busy day and you will give her a call when you have the time to talk. That way you don't hurt her feelings. Hopefully she'll get the hint.
2006-12-05 19:14:56 · answer #6 · answered by betterthanhers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know gently. Don't be too blunt. Tell her, "You know what, I really value the time we spend together. You're an awesome person but, I think
option 1.) I need some space
opt. 2.) you should call me less
opt. 3) can you call me only from _:__ to 4:00 or something.
set your boundaries! You know her best. Pick the one that she would take to best. good luck!
2006-12-05 19:15:58 · answer #7 · answered by Gaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh that is hard...what I did was I didnt pick up and changed my number...that isnt good advice tell her that you love her dearly but the morning calls are a little much
2006-12-05 19:13:57 · answer #8 · answered by The_Morbid_One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply tell her to stop calling so much. If your a teen, tell her your parents dont want so many phone calls at the house. Let her know that she can still talk to you, but not as much, you need your own time.
2006-12-05 19:14:50 · answer #9 · answered by Dark Spirit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't be truthful with your friends, then who can you be truthful with?!
They say that the truth will set you free. I've put it to the challenge and now I live my life that way. Sure I anger people, hurt others, but I know who my true friends really are and people know I will be honest with them no matter what.
Just imagine having someone in your life you know will tell you the truth, no matter what. I really don't think thats a bad thing.
2006-12-05 19:20:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes sometimes it can be stupid..and it is in fact. well try to tell her that you hate talkin on phones, just if someone has somehting special to say. talkin with is the best way, but if u cant, than she calls you 2 times a day....once answer, second not...everyday, so she will stop cllin when she sees that u r not answering.. good luck!
2006-12-05 19:14:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋