You are a Libra, Your lover is a Cancer
Think twice about this relationship, Libra. It can work if you try, but you may find that the temperamental differences are so great that it may be impossible for you to bridge the gap. Why? For starters, your Cancer lover is a homebody and you like to go out as much as possible. You love new experiences and meeting new people, while they find that kind of lifestyle to be a waste of their time. Cancer's domesticity might drive you up the wall, especially when you realize that your lover hoped you were June or Ward Cleaver from the old '50s sitcom "Leave it to Beaver" -- you never will be anything remotely like that. Many Cancers are walking around with an old-fashioned vision of what family life ought to be, and in the early stages of the relationship you may not see this coming. But a lovely, warm, and inviting home is something you both want, so at least that is on your side. The difference is you like to entertain friends, but they want to entertain family.
Secondly, you are an air sign -- an analytical, communicative, and intellectual creature. Your lover, on the other hand, is a water sign, full of sentimentality, romance and feelings. Now this may sound great to you at first, but in time, you may find Cancer's changing moods unfathomable. A Pisces or Scorpio would have the patience and intuition to understand where Cancer is coming from, but after a while you probably won't have the stamina or interest to figure those moods out.
Sexually, your Cancer is a talented lover; he or she will lavish you with attention and romantic gestures. At first this will be wonderful, because Cancers are a dream in bed. However, later they can become a bit possessive or even jealous of your time, asking you to explain your schedule in detail. Your lover will wonder why you can't be more emotional and compassionate with him or her, and you will wonder why he or she can't be more rational and just let you be you.
If you love your Cancer, you may have other planets in your horoscope, which meld beautifully with his, or hers -- so don't give up hope. Even if there are no such planets in either of your charts, remind yourself that astrology is not destiny. If you truly love someone, no obstacle is too great to overcome.
2006-12-05 12:04:20
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answered by ~NEO~ 4
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When Cancer and Libra come together they each supply what the other is lacking. Both Signs are looking for security in partnership, and they share an appreciation for beauty and luxury, particularly in their domestic environment. The two can work together harmoniously if both are trying to achieve the same goals. The relationship may start slowly, and at first the pair may seem to have little in common, but the more they get to know each other, the better each person will recognize and respect positive qualities in the other.
Cancer and Libra both appreciate emotional and intellectual resources, and they often enjoy a teary opera or a sentimental antique. Emotion and pleasure are important to both Signs, and they complement each other in many ways. Cancer appreciates Libra's charm and diplomacy, and Libra can tame the wild shrew of unbridled emotional pouting which rears its ugly head if Cancer doesn't get their way. Libra appreciates the Cancerian love of nurturing a comfortable home and the security that comes with it. Additionally, Libra can help Cancer see the different sides of a situation, rather than making a decision without knowing all the facts. Conversely, Cancer can help Libra cure their notorious indecision.
Cancer is ruled by The Moon and Libra by the Planet Venus. These partners share a love of home, hearth, family and romance. Libra, especially, is about balance, and both partners share nurturing personalities and a desire for harmony. Together they are able to bring warmth and stability to other people unlike any other couple. Librans can be snobbish and Cancer may get their feathers ruffled easily. Cancer is based on emotion, and Libra based on intellect.
Cancer is a Water Sign and Libra is an Air Sign. Libra moves through life with pure mental exploration, while Cancer is more kinesthetic. Cancer is happiest when their emotional needs are met while Libra simply focus on what interests them from an intellectual standpoint. At times these partners may find it difficult to understand each other. Conflicts can arise in this relationship if Cancer seems too crabby or Libra seems too provocative. Both partners need to learn that they view the world in different ways.
Cancer and Libra are both Cardinal Signs. In this relationship, both partners will constantly struggle to be at the steering wheel. Libra's indecision may irritate Cancer. But Libra is skilled at seeing all sides of a problem, so is often able to accept Cancer's decision as long as Cancer avoids getting Crabby. Both are initiators which can, at times, be a struggle when their ideas and approach differ.
The best aspect of the Cancer-Libra relationship is their mutual appreciation of stability and domestic balance. Aesthetics are important and they share a love of the comforts in life. Their similar tastes and loves makes theirs a relationship of great dedication and harmony.
2006-12-06 22:38:56
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answered by Anonymous
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Libra & Cancer
When Cancer and Libra make a love match, they give to one another important things that each lacks. Both Signs seek a secure, assured relationship and will enjoy their shared appreciation for beauty and luxury -- especially when it comes to their domestic environment. These two can blend their energies harmoniously if they choose to work toward a common goal. Though this pairing may progress more slowly than some others, and at first they may fear that they have little else in common than their mutual needs for companionship and love of beauty. However, the more they get to know one another, the better each individual in this Cancer-Libra love match will recognize and respect positive qualities in the other.
Neither Cancer nor Libra shy away from combining the powers of their emotion and their intellect, and both enjoy the occasional teary opera or sentimental heirloom. Expression of sentiment and happiness are important to both Signs, and Cancer and Libra can complement one another in many ways. Cancer appreciates Libra's charm and tact, and Libra's calm, cool diplomacy skills can tame even the wildest pouting fit a Cancer can muster up. Also, Libra, lover of aesthetic beauty and harmony, will appreciate their Cancer mate's nurturing instinct for a comfortable home and the security that comes with it. Libra can offer the sometimes emotionally impetuous Cancer some perspective on situations. Cancer needs to see the different sides of an issue, or this Crab may be prone to making decisions without knowing all the facts. Conversely, Cancer can help Libra cure their notorious indecision.
The Moon (Emotion) rules Cancer, and the Planet Venus (Love) rules Libra. These planetary partners share a love of home, family and romance. While Libra is known for its balancing nature (the Balance is Libra's symbol, after all!), these love partners share nurturing personalities and desire harmony over conflict. More than any other match-up of Signs, this astrological pair brings a warmth and sense of stability to those around them. Despite all the harmony and homey happiness, though, Librans, whose life approach is based on intellect, can be a bit snobbish and superior, and Cancer, who looks at life through emotional lenses, still has those easily bruised feelings to contend with.
Cancer is a Water Sign, and Libra is an Air Sign. Libra sees life as a pure mental exploration, while Cancer's experience is more tactile, more kinesthetic. Cancer is most satisfied when their emotional needs are met, while Libra simply focuses on what stimulates their mind. At times, these lovers may find it difficult to understand one another. Conflicts can arise in this relationship if Cancer seems too crabby or Libra seems too provocative. Both need to learn that they simply view the world in different ways.
Cancer and Libra are both Cardinal Signs. In this relationship, there could be struggles over who wears the pants, who's at the steering wheel, who's really in control here. If Libra's indecision irritates Cancer, Libra can turn on their subtle charm and sense of fairness and go along with Cancer's decision -- as long as Cancer doesn't get Crabby! Both are initiators, which can, when their ideas and approaches differ, be quite a struggle.
What's the best thing about the Cancer-Libra love match? Their mutual appreciation of stability and domestic balance. Aesthetics matter to them, and they share a love of the comforts in life. Their similar tastes and loves make theirs a relationship of great dedication and harmony.
2006-12-05 21:30:22
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answered by mlhbak2006 2
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i would hope so, im in the same position as u!
im a libra and i want a cancer... wow, i bet thats the only sentance where "i wan a cancer" is anything but weird
2006-12-05 19:59:14
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answered by tmntvspr 2
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I know the gender makes a difference, but I am a libra female and I once date a cancer male........ my first true love.... heaven.
I always think back on him. he was such a sensitive soul. oooh, and he hard dark hair, blue eyes, and the longest eyelashes..... mmmmm
2006-12-06 00:01:46
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answered by Anonymous
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yeah but i anin't no cancer srry but i do give out a lot of good advice
2006-12-05 19:26:21
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answered by Nautica Q 2
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