ok, my best friend is really girly and im alittle girly but more tomboy. I grew up with three older brothers so ya. anyway, a new girl came and now she is hanging out with her more. it makes me feeling like she doesn't care about as much anymore. but she is one of the nicest girls. anyway, the new girl is girlyer than me but not as girly as my best friend. and i think they get along together better than me and her. i don't her to be with me all the time but i would like some time with her. what should i do?
2006-12-05 11:02:21 · 15 answers · asked by jEN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
look it seems you have the same problem as me except a little different. I talked to an adult and they told me to talk to her snd tell her how i feel. it will totaly help. it worked for me and know i am very happy.
2006-12-05 11:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by Double A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All three of u should go do something together. Like go to the mall for a day or have a sleepover. That way all three of u will get along(hopefully) and find things that u have in common. That way all three of u could hang out and u could still hang with your best bud and could possibly make a new friend in the proccess.
2006-12-05 19:08:41 · answer #2 · answered by leeboo13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to sit your friend down and let her know how you feel. Only she can decide what has to be done afterwards. If she's a true friend, she'll realize your hurt and include you in her hangouts. If not, then you'll get your answer, that she wasn't a true friend.
If that happens, just know that you did your best as a friend and your friend just wwasn't worth it in the end. I know it will hurt alot, but know that it's better you found out now rather than later. I'm sorry. Good luck.
2006-12-05 19:06:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate times like this. Looks like your bestfriend has found a new bestfriend and it is very painful when things like this happen. There isn't very much you can do at a time like this but talk to your friend and tell her how you feel. If she says nothing has changed and she is still spending all of her time when the new girl it might be time to become closer friends with someone else because weather she knows it or not she has replaced you.
2006-12-05 19:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by The_Morbid_One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though people are more girly than you it doesnt mean that you cant have fun with them. Having more friends is better than having one. Try hanging out with both of them one time and then if it doesnt work, talk to her and tell her how you feel, if shes a true friend she will understand :) good luck! :)
2006-12-05 19:07:26 · answer #5 · answered by Jenifer M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel...Opposite personalitys go together...not all but most...just talk to your friend I am sure she will understand...try to make friends with the other girl too...when 2 people/friends are too much alike it is likely they do not have much to talk about...but when you are different you have lots to talk about!!
Me and my BFF are very different in soo many ways and the same in many ways...so I think you should just not let the difference between you two bother you and just worry about having a great friendship!!!
:)
Hope this helps!
2006-12-05 19:11:38 · answer #6 · answered by crzycoolswmr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the above poster, tell her how you feel and that you miss hanging out with her. I suspect she is just enjoying meeting a new friend. Also, maybe you could get to know the new girl as well, the 3 of you could be great pals.
2006-12-05 19:17:43 · answer #7 · answered by Kyanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just talk to her about it and tell her that you're not jealous of the new friend, but just that you miss her company and you'd like to spend more time with her. What about the three of you hanging out together? Whatever you do, just be straight up and honest with her and she'll respect you for that.
2006-12-05 19:07:02 · answer #8 · answered by salstick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know just how you feel. Being replaced. Left in the dust. You feel like you want to know why they are laughing so much without you.... Please don't make the same mistake I made. You arn't being replaced. Quite the opposite. By having another friend to contrast you by, your best friend will see even more positive things about you and your bond will grow. I know it feels like you want to keep her to yourself, but really, would it be that bad to let her go?
-Hitzusen
2006-12-05 19:05:57 · answer #9 · answered by hitzusen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know some of the answers say talk to her
but us teens dont do that, so i understand fully
i think you should make plans in advance, like ask her a week ahead to go to the movies or skating or to spend the night, you know so you two can catch up with out intereference
2006-12-05 19:17:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋