My bf and I started hanging out with this guy who was my friends type but not really mine (physically he is attractive but no what i normally go for) anyway the dude ends up being a total nympho and wants us to play strip poker and turns on porn and **** like that. Somehow or another bot my friend and I ended up having sex with him. The dude has been known to do coke and oxy's and when I asked my friend about the sex she said they stopped in the middle and he masturbated until he ejaculated and the stuck in back in when he was orgasaming. She also said he had difficulty maintaing an erection. The experience with me was similar and it was obvious he was attracted to both of us so the question is does coke and oxy contin cause erectile disfunction or is he just addicted to masturbating? He was unable to keep the erection during oral or vaginal sex and it was just weird. Please no judgemental answers my friend and I basically were just attracted to him (he keeps his appearence up despite
2006-12-05 10:53:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
the drug use) and I just want to know what the deal was because I never had a guy have to masturbate instead of sex.
2006-12-05 10:53:52 · update #1
bf stands for best friend NOT boy friend!!!! she is a chic!
2006-12-05 11:14:36 · update #2
Coke increases thoughts and keeps you from concentrating, even though some people say they can think so clearly. Most men need that concentration to maintain erection. He could be so used to masturbating that it's most pleasureable to him.
2006-12-05 11:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there;
By experience with various drugs and alcohol and of course lots and lots of sex and sexual situations, I can honestly say that YES, drugs & other mind altering substances do affect one's performance skills... Some guys can easilly function and dismiss the "impotency"-inducing nature of alcohol and drugs, while for some other guys, it is unfortunatly a fact of life...
Using my own experience as background (so do not take all I write as 100% factual thruth, since we are all influenced by outside interferences), I would have to say the guy is NOT addicted to masturbation, but rather has trouble going all the way and letting himself go to the moment (sex is also a question of trust between the partners, not just lust), so it is "normal" if he has trouble maintaining an erectionduring sex (intercourse and/or oral). Which is why he would fall back to masturbating to keep himself from losing interest totally in the heat of the moment. Chances are if he did not masturbate after the session(s), he would have simply lost his erection and the whole session would have ended there... So in order for it not to be a total loss, he took matters into his own hands and tried to rescue what was left of the heat....
Basically, drugs and booze will deffinatly affect one's ability to perform. My wifey and I can testify for this, which is why I try to stay as sober as I can these days! Let's just say I have had my share of limpy situations where I couldn't stand up for the occasion!
Cheers!
2006-12-06 09:33:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drugs would contribute to erectile problems, but there may be other factors to think about. Some men find condoms inhibiting and having sex with one on is restricting and the feeling is lost due to the tightness of the condom. Some men prefer masturbating so they can be condom free and enjoy the pleasure and sensation of the whole experience. I'mno doctor, that's just my opinion, I hope it sheds some light :)
2006-12-05 19:00:32 · answer #3 · answered by Angela L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
masturbating is natural to men and women , so count that one out.
The drugs probably got him off track there.
Maybe his hand was faster than your bootie.
Them 2 drugs do not cause erectile disfunction.
Some men just do it differently perhaps.
Hope both of u women douche afterwards is the main thing.
2006-12-05 19:00:26 · answer #4 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not safe to be around someone that does coke,my brother use to be an addict he was like 2 diffrent ppl. a nice side then he would have an extremly violent side. he got so bad he was hitting physiclly hitting me my brothers and sisters,and my mom. he was the oldest one out of 6 kids. me i wont even talk to any one that does druggs. and druggs affect ppl in diffrent ways and it sounds like he pulled out to get off instead of coming in you or your freind to try to keep from having babys with you girls or because he wanted to get off and keep going with out the chics puss being all sloppy wet. and i would advice loosing the freinds you have now and getting some help before you die of some over dose or something stupid. and lol realize it or not drugs arent cool drugs arent a good thing, i have 2 kids and another on the way and i hope my kids dont turn out to have freinds like you and your friends. i want my kids to make something of them selfs, and not just a junkie either
2006-12-06 00:08:24 · answer #5 · answered by cute redhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably isn't a good idea to have sex with a drug addict. Do you no all the chemicals he's putting in his body? Or how many people he may have done the same thing to? You could contract something.
2006-12-06 00:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you hit the nail on the head...oxy and coke do not mix well...especially the coke will cause erectile dysfunction
2006-12-05 18:59:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is more than likely the drug use but it could be (remote possibility) a physiological problem.Enjoy yourself.
2006-12-05 18:58:28 · answer #8 · answered by Daniel H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give all of this up and turn your life around.
2006-12-05 18:56:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
yes,...drug use can inhibit preformance
2006-12-05 18:56:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋