2006-12-05 10:47:11 · 12 answers · asked by tazzy1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have to ask yourself if she's being sincere...Also, you know that it may not work, so do you want to put yourself through it again? Maybe you can put the divorce on hold for a while and see how things go, but don't let her think that you're desperate because then she will walk all over you. Make sure she's not using you before you give her your heart back!! Good Luck!
2006-12-05 10:50:45 · answer #1 · answered by Christy K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd be a fool, hon. An old friend told me once, "the only thing good reheated is stuffed cabbage." Things wear out.... cars, tires, teeth, and marriages. Yup, start over. There are tons of great women out there who want to be in a relationship with an open up front guy. Try Yahoo Personals, Match.com, itsjustlunch.com and e-harmony..... they all work. Read some of my other stuff to people in your spot....
2006-12-05 11:10:11 · answer #2 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was a reason that you agreed to the divorce, she might be showing a different face from before but she is still the same person. Becareful, you have to take care of yourself first.
2006-12-05 10:51:15 · answer #3 · answered by snickit16150 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wanted a divorce - she gets it. Don't go back into this mess, the hardest part is almost over. She's playing games with you; don't play along, stick to your own path.
2006-12-05 10:49:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember why she wanted the divorce? Keep that in mind when making your decision. Good luck!
2006-12-05 11:11:23 · answer #5 · answered by cmcj74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the reasons you got divorced really....if u truly still love her why not give her another chance?If you think it just a waste of time..dont.
2006-12-05 10:57:43 · answer #6 · answered by aliyah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go through with the divorce, maybe try dating again.....to feel things out.....and if it works then you can always get re-married!
2006-12-05 10:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by Tina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it took my in-laws getting divorced, living seperate for a year to realise that the hubby needed to change his habits. he quit drinking and they are now happily remarried. if you plan to remarry, things have got to change with the two of you. seek out counciling--at a church, not a marriage councilor--the pastor of your church can help you alot better than a marriage councilor--and it's free
2006-12-05 11:55:53 · answer #8 · answered by maggie_englehart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i take it , that is not what you want? tell her the divorce goes thru an if things work out ...you will re-marry her.
2006-12-05 10:49:23 · answer #9 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's yanking your chain. If you take her back she will think "he loves me more than I love him, so what can I get away with." then she will spend years torturing you to find you limits. So if you want to me miserable go for it.
2006-12-05 11:37:33 · answer #10 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋