my friend jenn broke up with her boyrfriend and now she wants to kill herself. she wants a slow and painful death and i am so scared i am going to the main office tomorrow only for her is this goood? or is it turning on her. i mean she is even doing crystal meth and weed.
2006-12-05 10:45:28 · 30 answers · asked by Polandsprings 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell someone NOW. Do not wait til tomorrow. Tell an adult. She could do it tonite. Youre saving her life. Its b etter to have a friend that hates you than a dead one.
2006-12-05 10:47:49 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would do the same exact thing if it was my best friend
best friends are there for you to help pick you up when you are down and to help pull you through when the tide is high. if i was in the situation i would let the office know her parents and my parents. maybe you can put her in an intervention or a rehab or something so she gets off the drugs and does not feel that way about herself and goes on with life
good luck and all the best
2006-12-05 18:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by summerfun11421 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your poor friend. Even though boys are definitely not worth all that, it's still sad, right? Don't turn her in just yet. If it gets that serious, then yes, you must. But for now...she doesn't need authority help...she's needs YOUR help. Try talking to her. Let her cry it all out. Show her the good things in life, you, her family, her friends, interests she loves. Tell her she deserves someone better and there is a boy out there who is meant to fall in love with her. Spend more time with her but don't let her involve you in drugs, please.
Best of luck.
2006-12-05 18:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by Emirii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hannah,
Suicide is nothing to fool around with. If your friend has told you she wants to hurt herself, you need to tell someone. It sounds like she is in some trouble with drugs and could use some help. You may be the only person who can help save her life, my advice is to call her parents or talk to a teacher as soon as possible! Good luck and take care!
2006-12-05 18:53:54 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny Mac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely talk to someone else about it....a school counselor or principal. Her safety is your #1 concern. It is not turning on her--you are her best friend and this is letting her know that you care. She may not realize this right away, but she will in time. She is going through a difficult time right now, and she will get through this. Keep talking to her; she may just need let her sadness/anger/other emotions out.
2006-12-05 18:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by ccccc12345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen i have been to rehab and i know about drugs most of the time when u come down from meth it will make u want to do that or when u stay up for a couple nights best thing is to get her to rehab it turned my life around and whith in two years crystal can shutdown your body it can rot ure teeth out it messes with your spinal column to
2006-12-05 18:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by travis c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's so sad that she feels that way over a dumb guy!!! You are doing the right thing by seeking help for her. She may attempt or not, but she's threatening to and you need to take that seriously. It's hard doing the right thing sometimes - but - if you love her you will do what's best even if you think she will be mad at you.
2006-12-05 18:51:39 · answer #7 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell someone that shes going to do this or your friend is going to commit suicide. If you really care about her then you have to tell the main office or something. She'll probably be mad at you at first but she'll thank you sooner or later. Killing yourself over a boy is stupid and you have to confront her or tell someone.
2006-12-05 18:49:20 · answer #8 · answered by Kayzizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u shood tell sumone cuz ur her frend and reel frends shood help each other out especially in this crisis!plz tel sumeone cuz since she's so broken hearted she may do sumthing dats so not her! .i reely undrestand how u may feel.i usta b down cuz i jus broke up wit my bf and dat was my love.i had to tel my close frends how i was feelin....no where close to suicide tho,but since u guys r good fends.tell her ur there for her.help her out wit dis.tell her parents.ur frend may b madd at u now but in da long run ur frend will thnx u
2006-12-05 18:54:12 · answer #9 · answered by precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you no then you should tell her the reasons why she should live and what she could miss out and tell her about her planned future like what she wanted to be when she grew up and stuff and tell her how much you would miss her and that it isnt wothr it
2006-12-05 18:48:22 · answer #10 · answered by V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋