2006-12-05 10:37:29 · 11 answers · asked by mojo 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
How is being BI gonna hurt anyone? Also I don't believe there is such thing as bisexual's. I think that it's just a period in one's life which you see what is the right path for you.
2006-12-05 10:43:01 · answer #1 · answered by HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Well, first of all you didn't indicate whom you might hurt and why you are concerned it will happen. I can only assume you have a long term girlfriend, you've recently had a fling with a man (assuming you're a man - no gender indicated on you here) and are now wanting to go get more of him or seek out others. You don't want to be caught, but you don't want to lie because what if this is serious and not just curiosity. Hmm? Here's the advice I give to all Bi people. It is not about WHO you love it's about HOW you love. It is ALL about FIDELITY. If you are with a man, be with HIM - period. If you are with a woman, be with HER - period. If you are serious about someone, eventually they need to know who you are. BUT, reassure them that you need to be loyal to the person you are with. If you were straight, would your partner worry about you going off with someone else of the opposite sex? Not if you were loyal. So, be loyal to your partner and no one will get hurt if you are honest with who you are. If they are hurt because of what you are attracted to, then that's on them, not you toots.
2006-12-05 10:46:00 · answer #2 · answered by ariasonota 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel,im bi and ive always been this way ive known that since i was a child.keeping it to urself i find is extremly hard for me bc i hate lying and keeping secrets but i feel at times its better than loosing the ones i love bc of their deep religious beliefs,not only is it hard on u but also those u date,my advise is just take it a day at a time and when u feel comfortable telling others and being true to urself ull know good luck
~Camie
2006-12-05 10:43:28 · answer #3 · answered by jordan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, remember that it is OK to fall in love (regardless of gender) and that being bi does not require you to have two lovers at a time for the rest of your life, you can still 'fall in love' with the 'right one' ...
2006-12-05 10:45:23 · answer #4 · answered by Terri 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Same way you don't hurt someone in a hetero, lesbian or gay relationship...DATE ONLY ONE PERSON AT A TIME. Saves a lot on drama and trauma.
2006-12-05 10:52:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your not sure.... maybe you should keep it to yourself... if you get in a relationship with the same sex and love it then you can talk to millions of counsulers
2006-12-05 11:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by Ma RU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being Bi is awsome you can have your cake and eat it too!!
2006-12-05 10:52:50 · answer #7 · answered by Rainbow Brite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm ** and i came out to and my dad and he was fine but when i told my mom she wanted to kick me out. If i were u i wouldn't care cause your in love and its not what everyone eles thinks.
2006-12-05 10:53:51 · answer #8 · answered by blondebeauty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u r not gonna hurt people.. been bi is so kool. and if people dont like it so what!!? u can't change that.. just be happy ;) just like me
2006-12-05 10:50:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well first of all, organized religion doesn't work for me. however, my one on one relationship with my higher power does. and i choose to call that higher power "GOD". and to me GOD is not an anthropomorphic figure. 'IT' is spirit. therefore i don't thing GOD recognizes the different sexes....so, you can't help who you desire to be with. your desires are there for a reason.
ONLY SOCIETY AND HUMAN CULTURE JUDGES!!!
be yourself...the rest will follow.
i wish you well
2006-12-05 11:45:04 · answer #10 · answered by basskickinmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋