2006-12-05 10:12:27 · 13 answers · asked by Alexis I 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should be concentrating on your studies not being popular. Just be yourself and the people who are supposed to be your friends will be. Being popular is not all that it's made up to be.
2006-12-05 10:16:55 · answer #1 · answered by PHAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just by being yourself.
That may seem like a cliche' answer but its a true answer. Do you know that kids that are really really tall feel the same way? Then there are skinny kids, heavy kids, dark, light, pale, .......and so on and so on.
So take what I said above and multiply it by every state in the US and every school in the US and every kid that attends those schools and I am sure 90% are what I described as above. And not everyone is lonely. People do make friends. You don't see a million kids walking around aimlessly. Everyone finds someone that they will eventually bond with, because there is more then height and weight...there is common likes and dislikes. There are things you can learn from someone else. There is music you can share and there are funny things and great times to share.
My son is 14 and he is 4'8" and he did worry about his height a few times but every year he makes a new friend and long term friends and great friends just by being himself. He is in a high school now and a new school too, and he has made tons of friends and this is all due to his great sense of humor, his kindness, his generosity, he genuine concern for people, his intelligence and he is so much fun to be around. They see all that and never see his height.
So be yourself.
2006-12-05 18:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by megabites42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself.......I was the most popular girl in school from seventh grade up and all i did was be myself. Lots of people didn't like me who cares ther are millions of people in the world someone is bound to want to be your freind.
2006-12-05 18:15:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friendly and outgoing, and try to meet someone in every clique at your school. Being short shouldn't be an issue if you make yourseld known to enough people.
2006-12-05 18:16:21 · answer #4 · answered by happy311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Doesnt Matter how tall you are. i have friens who are like 6 ft. way taller than me and we are great friends. and i friends shorter. Just be yourself and find people with the same interest in you. Talk with people in your class about the assignment then about other things.
2006-12-05 18:15:45 · answer #5 · answered by Stary_989 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in seventh grade and if ur unpopular if ur short than ur schools wierd.....u gotta speak up more and talk to people and try not to be obnoxious.....work ur way up like im doing.....
2006-12-05 18:16:34 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to ppl i made a friend and she is short but are good friends
2006-12-05 18:23:40 · answer #7 · answered by basketball24/7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with being small the nicet of things come in small packages so just b yourself and u will b fine
2006-12-05 18:16:18 · answer #8 · answered by sarah71397 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start talking with people you know first..........and than talk to there friends that they hang around..........hang around a group...and than another group.........but dont ditch them....keep in touch....and you should be yourself while....unless your a band geek or a nerd...........the most people who are popular are sk8ters and preps!
2006-12-05 18:31:12 · answer #9 · answered by figget 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try going in sports, or clubs...
even if u're not popular..u can get
popular by the clubs or sports..
2006-12-05 18:17:35 · answer #10 · answered by Cristina lynn spears 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋