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Question

hello i asked a guestion about a week ago about my best friend being pregnat. she said she took a test yestrday and it came back as baby. we are 12
now she will not tell her grandma, she live with her, or her so called boyfriend. she is thretning to leave home and i told her not to. she then told me to by her some coat hangrs if i didnt want her to run away which was relly confusing. she is my bestest friend and i dont know what to do i love her. shoud i tell her grandma or even call the police?

Answer 1

I agree, tell your parents first. They will probably tell her grandma but that is what is needed right now. You sound like a great friend but you both are so young to be dealing with such adult situations... the best thing to do is get it out of your hands and into the hands of people that are able to help like your parents and her grandma. Take Care honey.

Answer 2

Well I would say call her grandma. Don't let let stick a coat hanger in side of her. That could mess her up a lot inside to where she cant have babies at all. She will be mad at you for telling, but I suggest it, It is the only healthy thing. Trust me tell her running away will do her no good. She is only 12. She wouldn't get very far for very long. She still has many years of education to go. What is yalls grade level? 7Th or 6Th. She will regret that very much. The only way out is the right way out. If you were her best friend you would tell somebody at school or tell her grandma. She will thank you for it in the long run.

Answer 3

You need to tell your parents. If you really care about your friend you are going to have to tell someone. 12 is too young to be worrying and keeping this big of a secret from adults. If you don't feel like talking to your parents, I would talk to her grandma. But I would feel more comfortable talking to my parents, that's just me. The coat hanger thing is something that my friend tried to give herself an abortion with when she was young. I would tell someone immediately!! If your friend is truly your friend she won't be mad, in the end your helping her. If you need to talk I'm me... my yahoo id is the same as my id on here...
danielleradford14
Good luck!! Don't be afraid!

Answer 4

Sweetie what you need to do is talk to your mom and have your mom talk to her grandmother so that she doesn't do something stupid and harm herself. There are ways that she can get help and ways to deal with this, she can give the baby up for adoption, Please keep an eye on her this is a very confusing time in anyones life there are alot of things that women and girls wonder about when they get pregnant especially when she is so young. Tell her that a coat hanger is only going to introduce infection into her body and possibly make her really sick. Sweetie if you need to talk more and if you have yahoo or aim my screen names are
on yahoo [e-mail]
and on AIM ekalbyecal05
please feel free to contact me I really want to help you help your friend, it is good that you are being such a good friend to be so concerned about her so if you would like my help feel free to contact me best of luck to you

Answer 5

Tell your parents. NOW. Then your parents need to tell her grandma. Then she should abort her child and stop having sex. I say get an abortion because it's risky for a girl so young to have a child not only for her but the baby as well.

Answer 6

You are 12. There is SOOO nothing you can do for her since you are just as young and it is aweful she is putting you in a position like that.

Tell YOUR parents and put it into someone else's hands better equipped with knowledge.

Answer 7

tell ur parents or the grandma she is not old enough to understand wat being a parent involve u guys are only 12 u should have to have this burden on u. Just talk to ur parents and explain wat is going on and they will sort it out.