I not sure if i want to get married or not... i not with anyone special at the moment is this why?? i cant see myself married..anytime soon.. my best mate is settling down talking about marrage, kids, morgage,etc.. i have a child with a x boyfriend i did think he was the one but it neva worked out.. do people stay unmarried thease days????
2006-12-05 10:01:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don`t know where you are but where i live (UK S Yorks )people who do get married seem to be in the minority.The ones that are married tend to be middle aged or old in fact now that i`m thinking about it i can count on one hand the people i know who are my age or younger (i`m 31 )that are married ..I wouldn`t say marriage or even being in a relationship is for every one ,i know it`s not for me .I have two children and have been by myself with them for nearly 5 years now and i intend to keep it that way well meaning people are allways trying to fix me up with someone or the other because they must think i can`t be happy without a bloke but believe me i am .All i`m trying to say is do whatever your own heart and head tells you is right for you .and don`t care about what others think it`s your life and only you who has to live it .
2006-12-05 10:40:24 · answer #1 · answered by keny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No marriage is not for everyone. If youre in a relationship where both are happy without being married, then so be it. Its nobodies business except your own why you two dont marry. All they need to know is youre happy and in love with each other and nothing else matters. With the high rate of divorce today, many couples chose the live in relationship and are just as content and happy as any married couple. So it just basically becomes a choice between two people on how you choose to live your life
2006-12-05 10:08:23 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry only if your heart is asking you too... yes many peoplestay unmarried these days... if you cant see it dont do it because at the end of it all you are going to feel like S**t...and not only do you have to think about your partner but you have to think about yourself as well ... feels is nothing to play with .
2006-12-05 10:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by Evey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get married because you feel presurised. That's the worse reason to do it. Get married because you feel that the person is the one you want to spend the rest of your life with.
There's no stigma attached to being single these days. Move in together - sure - but don't get married unless you want to. If he loves you he'll understand your not ready and will stay despite that.
2006-12-05 10:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by shimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they stay unmarried these days but it takes alot of hard work for a relationship to work and marrige is just as bad just messy at the end
2006-12-05 10:12:36 · answer #5 · answered by nickyo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is sacred, It's an institution sanctified by God, if you don,t believe that, you are on the wrong path, think again!The bible, says you should get married, that is God's will, if you fight it you are against Him, then you are screwed, Your question ( No, eventually every-one will get married.
2006-12-05 10:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by chilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want kids, you should be married. I can`t understand why some people do things a-rse about face. It`s no wonder society is in such a mess.
2006-12-05 10:14:53 · answer #7 · answered by The BudMiester 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is great if u both put the effort in to make it a success
2006-12-05 10:11:03 · answer #8 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you feel is right, if you are unsure then take a step back and reevaluate. Marriage is not for everyone and sometimes the one you think was the one isn't.
2006-12-05 10:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by snickit16150 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not being married is no longer a taboo anymore. Do whatever you feel is right
2006-12-05 10:03:21 · answer #10 · answered by Lick my @sss 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋