I not sure if i want to get married or not... i not with anyone special at the moment is this why?? i cant see myself married..anytime soon.. my best mate is settling down talking about marrage, kids, morgage,etc.. i have a child with a x boyfriend i did think he was the one but it neva worked out.. do people stay unmarried thease days????
2006-12-05 10:00:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's a personal choice - you will instantly know if you want to or not and then you'll know !
sounds mad i know but you'll understand when it happens
2006-12-05 10:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No marriage is not for everyone. There are many couples that have stayed together for years with out having any legal binding papers- Even that one old rock start that was on tv, him and his wife are not married and have stayed that way for 20 years-
I was married but it ended badly and do not see myself marrying again, only because I know the head ache that comes from a divorce. I expect the next man I am with to respect that fact, but the future is never written in stone.
2006-12-05 18:04:49 · answer #2 · answered by allaboutme_333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think marriage is for people truly in love that want to have a legally recognized commitment. I don't think that is as many people as there are married today. Many societies put an extremely high premium, and with that benefits, of being married. If you had someone you were in love with you might want to consider marriage. I don't think there is anything wrong with staying unmarried.
2006-12-05 18:03:57 · answer #3 · answered by I'm Trying 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well theres no pressure these days .most ppl consider the day and the dress and being made to feel like a princesss,more than valuing the vows.im 30 lived with someone for 8 years and have 3 kids with him whom i love,left him tho as he was violent.still i wouldnt marry untill i knew what i wanted most,theres no hurry and your fine as you are.there isnt anyone there special so why let it bother you.marry in haste repent at leisure.in other words marry just ant=yone for the sake of it ,youl soon regret it x just concerntrate on you and your child
good luck
2006-12-05 18:11:32 · answer #4 · answered by gypsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Horses for courses, if there's nobody special in your life at the mo don't worry about it, "Marry in haste repent at leisure" as the saying goes, if you marry a 7 you're bound to find a 10 that fancies you!
2006-12-05 18:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by Avon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just follow ur heart hun and do what ever you want to
2006-12-05 18:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by joleen19842006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a choice for everyone. if you want to be single, it is up to you.
2006-12-05 18:19:39 · answer #7 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋