2006-12-05 09:51:38 · 19 answers · asked by Kimmy Pooh 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes, you have a choice. I prefer a rubber since it eliminates some of the worries and can become a part of foreplay if done right.
2006-12-05 10:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you do have a choice, however, the person you are with may affect that choice.
The agreement the two of you come to will dictate whether a rubber or nothing or some other means of protection is used.
Both of you obviously must consider what kind of relationship you have with each other, the possible pregnancy -- if it is heterosexual -- and the possibility of disease.
And hopefully, you both honor each other's choices.
Enjoy.
2006-12-05 17:56:24 · answer #2 · answered by apspark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You always have a choice - but not being as cautious as possible can lead to disaster. When I was younger I lived in Chicago and led a very promiscuous life - if it was female and it moved I had sex with it lol! I was extremely careful though - I was religous about wearing a condom and observing safe sex practices. I also went to get STD tests about every 3 months just in case - just to check for the heck of it even though I didnt think I had anything. In 7 years of that swinging, promiscus lifestyle I never had a problem - no STD's, no diseases, no gifts that keep on giving, NOTHING. I attribute that to my diligence in practicing safe sex methods.
I am married now, settled down, and my past is behind me, so of course I am enjoying condom-free sex with my wife, but I am in a committed one-woman relationship and have nothing to fear (except maybe a pregnancy lol).
My advice: Before ya' get silly, wrap that willy!
2006-12-05 18:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by doubletap_downzero 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have many choices
You can abstain - that's choice number one
You can use a latex prophylactic ("rubber") which will help in the prevention of Disease AND pregnancy.
You can use devices, (IUD. Coil, etc) for the prevention of pregnancy (but still run the risk of disease)
Or, you can use nothing and possibly get pregnant AND a venereal disease. Your choice!
2006-12-05 17:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well yea u always have a choice.you could either use a condom and be protected and not risk getting pregnet or getting aids or a std.or u can NOT use a condom and take a risk to all that i think the choice is pretty easy at least for me.but i think that u should use a condom
2006-12-05 17:55:33 · answer #5 · answered by diamondlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, silly! JUst make sure there's one available. There are also other forms of b'control out there like the diaphram and typical BC from a doctor.
2006-12-05 17:56:23 · answer #6 · answered by element_op 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No choice is necessary if a person is not slutty and maintains a monogamous relationship...let the children come...if people are lucky enough to have any.
2006-12-05 17:55:37 · answer #7 · answered by Therapist King 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have a choice, then odds are you probably shouldn't be having sex.
2006-12-05 17:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by Consuming Fire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you always have a choice. for me in new relationship it's safe all the way. but if I'm in an ltr with someone, we are monogamous and have both been tested i prefer not to use one
2006-12-05 17:55:22 · answer #9 · answered by Ron N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - everybody should have a choice. Anything else is abusive.
2006-12-05 17:55:33 · answer #10 · answered by chris B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋