Are Japanese girls attracted to American men?

Question

I have always been really attracted to Japanese girls and I would like to travel to Japan one day or meet a nice Japanese girl here in the USA.

Thanks for all of the great answers! I will choose my "best answer" tomorrow. I am an American Caucasian.

I basically asked this question to see what the initial perception of "American men" or caucasian man is to Japanese women.

Personally, I think Japanese women are most beautiful! One day I will marry one...even if I have to fly there. The only thing I really know about Japan is what american media lets me see.

Bugaisha,

I love pizza and have never been to Italy! I'm such a wannabe. My idea of "heaven" is living in a land I have never been to and coming home to a beautiful japanese girl!

Answer 1

Some are I guess.
In some circles it's thought of as "cool" to have a BF/GF of a different race.
When you think about it though, you having a thing about japanese girls is proof that somewhere there's a Japanese girl out there who has a thing for American guys.

I'm just curious, how about Japanese-American girls? Do they count as being Japanese to you? (ie: Born in the US, speak fluent english and maybe some Japanese but never lived in Japan.)

Answer 2

Some Japanese girls are attracted to some white men

Answer 3

You can watch Japanese TV shows. In most areas they have them available on your small network TV stations. You can go to the library and check out a book on Japan. Travel books will tell you about Japanese culture. I don't know how you can be attracted to Japanese girls when you know nothing about Japanese culture. If you want a Japanese girlfriend, you need to learn about the culture first. And that also means trying to learn to speak Japanese as well. All these things are more easy said than done. Good luck...

Answer 4

Japanese women born here are very different than those born there. Those born here are more or less American. You might want to figure out "why" you think you're attracted to Japanese women. Alot of women there like tall blue-eyed blonds. Be aware though, to many over there "American" means "white". Try to find a Japanese e-pal first. But I have to tell you it won't be easy. The person who mentioned the green card was ignorant. Most Japanese do NOT want to move here. LA has a higher crime rate than the whole country of Japan. Most Japanese here are in Hawaii, San Jose, San Francisco.and LA.

Answer 5

Yes. When girls hear "American", they imagine "Caucasian" usually, in Japan.
I like the Charisma man cartoon!. It must let the reader happy (if I were in his position.) You believe it? Then try to come and experience Japan by yourself.

In my view, in generally speaking, only the Western expats who are receiving salary from their home country can be the Charismaman.
I mean, if you are American, and if you are working for US company in Japan and getting salary in US dollars, you must be able to have happy days in Japan. The people from Europe (Britain, Germany, etc) as well. They usually have money.

OR, the persons who have special talent or have their own business basis in Japan also look happy.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marty_Friedman_%28guitarist%29
http://web-japan.org/trends/people/peo050315.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Steven_Seagal
http://www.amazon.co.jp/gp/switch-language/product/4768468683/ref=dp_change_lang/250-2483163-3028201?ie=UTF8&language=en%5FJP

All of them speak Japanese fluently, they earn money by themselves, and understand Japanese culture. Yes, they are Charismaman. They have a house in Japan, they travel often, and they are seen enjoying life while in Japan.
They love Japan and I am sure that Japanese people, not only the girls but also guys, have a kindly feeling toward them as well.

Traveling to Japan is OK. But I wonder how long they can be a Charisma man. They have to get back home soon.
As for living in foreign country, in most cases, I think it is not easy, especially getting nice jobs. You can't expect multicultural things and racial diversity as well. So, what do you think?

Charisma man cartoon must NOT have been explaining these things.

Answer 6

American men are different so Japanese women may like what is different. Some girls just may want to practice their English.

Answer 7

Yes, there are definetely some out there. However, you might want to rephrase "American" with "Caucasian"? Just because you're American, doesn't necessarily mean that you are white. I am Asian American for example.

Anyway, I was reading an article the other day and it showed some statistics, I'm pretty sure it was that 74% of Japanese girls that come to America marry outside their race. . .However, it could have been 65%? Whatever the number, I know that it was pretty high because right after the author wrote "These numbers sadly show the dilemma of the Asian man" or something.

It also depends on whether she has had a very cultural and traditional upbringing. If her parents are really strict, they might hold their daughter to have standards for Asian men. However, there are always many exceptions!!!

For example, I have definetely been attracted to guys outside of my race, so don't give up hope.

However, in Japan, no matter how much a "gaijin" (foreign devil. . .) might be able to assimilate himself, he'll still always be somewhere faintly on the outside of an invisible line. Even if you meet people that love and accept you, you will never really belong on a certain level.

But, keep your chin up because of course it sounds worse than it really is.

Just remember that having a good personality shines through no matter the race, culture, country, whatever, and whenever.

Peace and good luck!

Answer 8

Yes it is correct. American got magnet in them and Japanese girls attracted to them.

I know some people from African countries they call them American though their English is poor but Japanese girls follow them because they say they are American. Can you believe it? no then come and try your luck.


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Answer 9

I find the Vietnamese girls makes me horny the most. I don't know why maybe it's that old 2 Live Crew song.

Answer 10

A whole comic was created about this phenomenon:

http://www.charismaman.com/

Simple answer: yes.