2006-12-05 09:27:01 · 16 answers · asked by nailah n 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Confidence u gotta think your all dat before anyone else will.Be yourself...someone will like you.
2006-12-05 09:29:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can start by not being so hard on yourself. You are only 14. If you haven't had a gf in 5 years, we are talking about since you were 9 years old. A lot of nine year old boys don't want a gf. LOL It will all be okay. Smile a lot; be friendlly; make friends - boys and girls. Let people have the chance to get to know you for WHO you are, not what you look like. I bet that you find out that you are a lot more handsome - and likeable - than you think!
2006-12-05 09:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by CYNTHIA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being only 14, you have a lot of growing, changing and maturing yet to do. Don't let it worry you. Everyone goes through awkward stages as they grow into an adult. Seems to me like you're going through what's normal for everyone. Be yourself, take care of yourself (be clean, don't dress like a bum, eat right, etc.) and get involved in activities that interest you. When the time is right for you to have a girlfriend, it will happen. You're only 14. Don't rush things. :-)
2006-12-05 10:07:39 · answer #3 · answered by Niki L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well considering you are only 14, you have your whole life ahead of you to find a gf. Trust me I didnt have a boyfriend until I was 17. And I am beautiful, I used to not believe so and when you have confidence it helps. Good luck!
2006-12-05 09:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by ...yoU knOw u nEed Me baYbeE... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
self esteem. start hanging out at places that most kids do. now they know who you are. think of about 2 or 3 girls you might go out with. try to be friends with them. adapt to your appearance. Clean up for a high-class city girl. Dress down for the fun-loving motorbike chick. be REALLY FUNNY. CONFIDENCE. never cry or slouch in front of a girl. don't be quiet, but don't be gross or annoying. flirt. BE YOURSELF
oh yeah, CYNTHIA 14 - 5 = 11 not 9
2006-12-05 09:57:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anna J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out there and be strong so what you think you look ugly in a dress that shouldnt but you down . You should try a new wardrobe and see what happens.
About that boy problem i wold searh for a boy thats always paying attetion to you and thats what i did thats how i found my bf.
2006-12-05 09:32:17 · answer #6 · answered by hottiebabe345 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop putting yourself down it does not help at all.In fact it makes things even worse.you have to feel good about yourself because if you dont you will give off a negative vibe and people will pick up on it and will start treating you worse then what you treat yourself.some will start calling you names and try to bring your self-esteem down lower then what it already is.change your attitude and love you.If a person want you only for your looks then their not the one for you anyway,looks are not everything.looks only go but so far.
2006-12-05 09:52:26 · answer #7 · answered by TrueWoman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry.You're only 14 you still have time to grow into your body. when you are 22 and haven't had a gf uin 5 years THAT' when you have a problem.
2006-12-05 10:51:44 · answer #8 · answered by Rockie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep trying. You're only 14. It's not the end of the world.
2006-12-05 09:30:58 · answer #9 · answered by quatrapiller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you say that you were 14 or 41?
here what you should........ stop putting yourself down,stop putting so much emphasis on the way you look on the outside, what matters is the way you feel about yourself ..if you think negative thoughts alot of time you get negative results. give yourself time to grow up. and above all... . love yourself.
2006-12-05 10:58:59 · answer #10 · answered by Buttafree23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well be strong dont think you're ugly but if you really want to get your hair cut or something dress different so that girls will like you thats okay too.
if you need help i will deff. help you out. i do that kinda stuff a lot.
so email me! racheebabeex3@yahoo.com
2006-12-05 09:41:51 · answer #11 · answered by Rachee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋