i want to have my baby baby daddys in jail comin out march 1st another 3 months my family dont want me to have the baby but i want it and so does my man im 14yrs old nd my mansz 18yrs old he does construction,landscapin,electricity and more nd he will b makin the money i mean ill have a job and errything i know that things will b o.k with taken care of the baby its that my parents are sayin dat they gone put me in a home nd tell my cps worker or probation officer that they dont want me there no more and i dont want to go to a group home das my concern if i got to a place where theres like a home for young teens to stay at nd live there i dont want to b there can my parent really do that? how can i change t around if i dont want to go there?i dont want my baby to b in adoption i dont go with that at all.so what are other ways?pllz hep me!!!
2006-12-05 08:58:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
untill your 18, unless emancipated, your parents have control of you technically. I think they are concerned because you and the father are still young and SOOO much stuff happens when you have a baby. The stress of caring for an infant 24/7 can get to you, and affect every aspect of your life~relationship,emotions, money....that may be why they are saying something about the teen house. It sucks, i'd hate it like crap if my parents did it, and i wouldnt even see their side if i hadnt recently had 2 kids.
I dont know how long they would keep you, i havent had any friends in a home like that. Think about your options if you dont go~there is a lot to think about.
2006-12-05 09:09:40 · answer #1 · answered by posquatch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Your parents can put you in a home for girls or troubled teens. Your olny 14 and still under the care of your parents until you turn 18, your not your own legal guardian until you turn 18. Unless you get inacipated from your parents (which that means them say that you are able to live and are responsible to live without them) Which they probally wont do that! So neadless to say they can do what they want done with you since you are only 14. You are to young for a baby you have your whole life a head of you. Do you really want a baby and husband or mate to tie you down at 14 years old? You can do an open adoption in which you are still intitled to seeing the child! There aren't many option for you since you are only 14. Or your parents can take custody of the child and raise it until they know you are reasponsible to raise a child it take alot more that money to raising a child there are alot of responsiblities that come with children more than you probally even know. So if I was you I'd either do an open adoption or let your parents raise the child as you said your baby's father is in jail how do you know that he will stay out of jail. He may say he will change but that is just say. My x-husband was in and out of jail and we have a 5 year old together and I left him cause he never wanted to work and was always in jail and to this day he doesn't have anything to do with my girl and still in and out of jail and don't pay his childsupport. Those are things that you have to think about is he gonna be a man that will take care of your child!!
2006-12-05 09:20:12 · answer #2 · answered by angel83121 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, get an education, you seem to lack one. Secondly, stop being a troll. Any ADULT or someone educated when know how plan b works, or would at least research it online. NO you can not take plan b now, you only have 72 hours which is three days. Third, you don't have to be able to make babies to ejaculate, its what is in what he ejaculates that counts which is called"sperm" There is a pill, but it is an abortion pill. And get on birth control, it is free, or use condoms, or better yet don't have sex. If you are not old enough to take the responsibility of having sex, don't do it. didn't you learn the "first time," that is if this is even a real question, not something some thirteen year old made up in her mind bc she has nothing else better to do at 2 am.
2016-05-22 22:05:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on what state you live in, you may not have a choice or whether you can keep your child or not. Your parents can say they don't want you, but they need to back that up with good enough reasons to put you in a home. You may have the ability to live with relatives. Here's a long stretch: If you can prove to the courts that you can live by yourself And fully support yourself AND continue to go to school full time, you may have a small chance of being an emancipated minor. Small chance! And your parents have to agree with the decision of you wanting to be considered an adult at such a young age. But again, that all depends on where you live.
If it were up to me, I would give the baby for adoption. You can guarantee that the baby will have everything it needs, as well as 2 parents readily available. And I would also forget the boy in jail. He's worthless being there. Is he physically supporting you now?! Good luck! You're going to need it.
2006-12-05 09:13:37 · answer #4 · answered by Sonia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, there is NO ONE that can force you to give the baby up for adoption, and NO ONE that can force you to have an abortion-- both are against the law. There are places a teen can go, but what about your bf parents? Will they not take you in for awhile? I mean if he is going to be with you and he is going to care for the baby, I would think his parents would stand behind the both of you and help out, then again, I would expect any parent to stand behind their child no matter what their feelings are about the situation. As a mother, I would prefer my child be with me so that I know my child and grandchild are doing well, I would be highly disappointed, but I would never do as you say your parents are doing. Secondly, once you have the child you are considered an adult (in the US, Do not know where you are.) Maybe a friend would let you stay at their place? I wish I could help you, and if you lived in my town I would take you in, pregnancy is hard enough no one deserves this added stress to go with it.
2006-12-05 09:11:21 · answer #5 · answered by lisads1973 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, you are in a tough position! I will keep you in my prayers. One thing I've experienced is that whenever one of my friends became pregnant and their parents said they would have nothing to do with them or the baby if they decide to keep it, the parents always end up falling in love with the baby after its born and are sorry they ever suggested abortion. Please keep an open mind to adoption and have the baby. Every option you have right now is a difficult one to live with. I don't know what other options you have, maybe if you tell what general area you live in somebody around there will know of something. Usually there are pregnancy hotlines too.
2006-12-05 09:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by Angela 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your 14 years old? I recommend you give the baby up to adoption to a loving family that cannot have children of their own.
Grow up and use PROTECTION
You are much to young to be having a bunch of dang babies. Jeez A mighty.
Go to school and get yourself a good education and stop fooling around.
2006-12-05 09:10:21 · answer #7 · answered by JB 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your "man" needs to be in jail, what a pervert taking advantage of a 14 yr old. You need to grow up!!!!!
2006-12-05 09:07:09 · answer #8 · answered by anna♥ L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋