Okay, I'm the only female freshman in my gym class. There are only a few other freshmen, and they're all boys. I cannot stand any of them, all except one (who's really quiet). Everyone else is older, Sophomores to Seniors. I recognize a few Sophomores from my Geometry class and other Gym class, but they're all boys also. And I don't really know them. I don't even know their names! I need to make a few friends that are girls. But they're all older, and you know how different that is in high school. Plus, I'm not one people WANT to talk to. How can I make friends? I looked... all the girls there seemed to be the pretty, popular ones, or are athletic. None of those girls would like me!
2006-12-05 08:50:02 · 8 answers · asked by ICan'tThinkOfAGoodName 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
But I have some friends that said that the quiet boy SEEMS like he's nice BECAUSE he's quiet, but when you get to know him, he's rude. I don't know... and besides, I'm pretty sure HE doesn't want to talk to ME!
2006-12-07 11:12:29 · update #1
Okay... I need more help... see... the problem is... well... I am always myself. But people just don't like me. Well, the happy me. I'm loud and annoying. The true me is a lonely, depressed girl. But many of my friends don't know about this side of me.
So I don't even know who I am. How can I be myself?
2006-12-08 13:44:20 · update #2
Honestly, just starting a conversation can spark a friendship. One of my really good friends is a sophmore, and I`m a freshman. I just started talking to her one day, and now we`re really close friends. Don`t be scared that they`ll reject you. Talk to them with confidence and you`ll be fine.
2006-12-05 08:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by SRAWRRR 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can definitely relate to you. I used to have the same problem. I used to be the kid no one wanted to "talk to" or "hang with". I was in for a surprise though. I realized I hadnt been acting like myself, and I was just trying to be what everyone else was. Turns out people like other people when they're real. When their not trying to be someone that they're not. Just be yourself, go up to them, smile, introduce yourself. Now I know what you're thinking. "Thats easier than it looks! Their's no way thats going to work!" If your friendly, and you just be yourself. You'll definitely have some friends coming in. Its hard at first, I wont lie to you, but just think about how good you'll feel after you made some new friends. Things will be alright. I promise. Good luck!
2006-12-05 08:58:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've felt like that many times. I can't believe you are the only female freshman. If there are any quiet people, talk to them. You don't have to be friends with the girls, you could be friends with the quiet freshman. Good luck!!
2006-12-05 08:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just Tri 2 talk to them nicely in class or something tri and start talking about a topic u know they like to talk about and that can turn out into a very interesting topic even though u may or may not like it. Its easier then what u think u'll have new friends in no time! just be nice don't give no dirty looks and don't hide in ur shell just be open to everyone!
2006-12-05 08:53:17 · answer #4 · answered by heidi20062008 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
strike up a conversation with one of them, i would avoid the popular girls at all costs, but if you talk to the boys, they might surprise you. ask them for help on something whether you need it or not. find some common interest.
i still have some friends from elementary school because i used to play football with the boys at recess.
2006-12-05 08:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by dcarcia@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how do you know they wont like you? Just try breaking the ice, compliment them or ask for their advice on something. Maybe they will learn to enjoy your company.
2006-12-05 08:52:56 · answer #6 · answered by marie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya can be friends With me email me
2006-12-05 10:19:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
kill them with kindness.
2006-12-05 08:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by Carley B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋