Hi. I am a 15 year old female, and im very scared/worried. My boyfriend and i engaged in unprotected sex two weeks ago. I am aware it was a STUPID decision..we were caught up in the moment and not really thinking. Well, He was only in for a little while, and i made him pull out at the first sign of "getting the feeling," although he wasn't even close. After that, i gave him oral sex for at least 10 minutes, until he came. I was wondering, what are the chances of me being pregnant? I know i can trust him, and he swears up and down that he wasn't even close, and i even brought up the subject of pre-*** to him. I also mentioned how i read that if the male hasn't urinated since the last ejaculation, leftover sperm could be pushed through the urethra. He says he CAN feel it happen, that it happened while i was giving him oral sex, and that he urinated that morning. (We had sex at about 9:00am.)I've been having stomach pains, but they're not only in my stomach, i also get them in my chest and back, and my ribs are sore, so im not sure if that is a symptom of pregnancy. I'm just VERY scared that i could possibly get pregnant. I forgot to mention that i was on the last or second to last day of my period.
My boyfriend and his guy friends tell me not to trip, but i can't help it! I'm not ready to hae a baby yet, but my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years and we're closer than most couples. I may be 15, but i'm mature for my age and i know it was a stupid decision. I've talked with him about birth control, and we both agreed that we'll only use condoms. We had sex after that time, but he wore a condom AND i didn't let him ejaculate while we had sex. So i hope this one time of bad judgement won't end up being a punishment.
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Yes, ive asked it several times. Ive added things though, so if you already answered just dont answer again, i dont need your attitude. =]
2006-12-05 08:47:31 · 11 answers · asked by Lovely 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Also, i have no signs of pregnancy. My breasts arent sore, im not tired, nauseated and i dont have to use the bathroom alot. I AM moody, but my period is due in a few days so i dont know.
2006-12-05 09:01:39 · update #1
All the people above have offered their opinion, but not the FACTS:
If your bf didnt ejaculate inside u, then the only thing that could have gotten in is pre-ejaculate. Pre-ejaculate has no sperm in it, since its made in the Cowper's gland, and not the testes like sperm. The only way that pre-ejaculate can contain sperm is if left-over sperm from a previous ejaculation were carried by the pre-ejaculate into your body.
MY advice? ask your bf if he ejaculated before having sex with you. if he did, but urinated a few times after that, you can relax. Urine is acidic and kills any sperm left over in the urethra of the penis.
2006-12-05 09:11:46 · answer #1 · answered by X16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, well, for one, he will NOT "feel it," (according to the men I asked if it was possible, and they say the only thing they feel is the final one.)pre-ejaculation happens all the time, this substance comes out during and before the major ejaculation and it does contain sperm. A pregnancy test would be the best course of action. As for the pains you have described, those are more commonly associated with stress not pregnancy. If your bre*** are tender or sore, if you have to go to the bathroom 3 x more than normal, if you feel tired and sleep half the day and night, if you get sick or nauseated easily, and if you have major mood swings-- these are the first signs of pregnancy and can come in different combinations.
2006-12-05 08:59:08 · answer #2 · answered by lisads1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never mentioned how old your boyfriend is, since you are sexually active and there is a chance you either are now or will get pregnant it may cross your mind to think about whether this guy can even provide for you and the " possible " baby, being "mature" for your age means you should be thinking about these things, is it just me that thinks 15 is way too young to be having sex anyways, what kind of guy exploits a young girl starting at age 13 ?. Just telling it like it is.
2006-12-05 09:05:49 · answer #3 · answered by Bobcat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A congratulations could be in order! My very first suspicion was when "the girls" were exceptionally sore and for quite a while. Before I was pregnant though, I could also tell when I was ovulating (even from which ovary) because of slight cramping. Either way, I'd recommend going in to the doc for a pregnancy test. GOOD LUCK! Let us know what you find out!
2016-05-22 22:04:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are so worried about becoming pregnant then why are you so against other forms of birth control. Not to sound like you can't trust your boyfriend but sh** happens and do you honestly think that he would really stick around and help support you if you did get pregnant? I hope for both of your sakes that you are not pregnant, just go and get a pregnancy test to be sure and then I would seriously consider another form of birth control. Good luck.
2006-12-05 08:54:25 · answer #5 · answered by momof3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. I think you're just being paranoid. Take a test in the next week or two and you should know for sure, or just wait until your period shows up or something like that. Nobody ever knows for sure until they do the test.
2006-12-05 08:55:08 · answer #6 · answered by Leah D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, If youre really worried, you should go take a pregnancy test and if you dont want to buy one from the store call your local planned parenthood and see if you can go in there, they usually dont take appts for pregnancy tests, you can just go in. I would take one just in case, also if you stress yourself out a lot about it, which its hard to help it, you will prolong your period from coming.....try not to worry and Im sure everything will work out well for you! Good luck!!
2006-12-05 08:53:27 · answer #7 · answered by kaelynnsmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be pregnant, but it's not likely. As you already know, ALWAYS have protected sex. You probably want to think about adding something in addition to condoms, a spermicide foam perhaps.
2006-12-05 08:52:06 · answer #8 · answered by SamIam82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be pregnant. It is very unlikely though since you were on your period and he did not finish while you were at it. I'm glad you have learned your lesson! I hope it works out well for you. I guess you should know in a couple weeks.
2006-12-05 08:51:24 · answer #9 · answered by Aloe-ish-us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though he didn't ejaculate, there is still a chance that pre-ejaculation occured (Even though he said it didn't, there is still a chance). So yes, there is a possibility that you could be pregnant.
2006-12-05 08:53:51 · answer #10 · answered by Kikyo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋