Currently, I am living with my boyfriend for 2 years now. Our relationship has been full of laughters, cries, worries, disagreements, willingness to do things for each other, and visiting friends' parties together. I am very positive in my work and relation with family and friends. His family is in another country and he is not too close with anyone except a few female friends who have relationship problems and always share their stories with him. I have met his best friend (female) who was also his roommate before (they lived together for 5 years). She keeps contacting him through email and chat, mainly to let him know about what's going on in her life and her current dating scenes. My boyfriend was in the bathroom one day. I felt insecure and went to his pc to check out what she has written to him. She asked him, "I undertsand that it is important to be with someone who really enjoys being with you, but is that part missing for you?" I felt very sad that day.
2006-12-05 08:46:08 · 3 answers · asked by iknowhowtolovehim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Aw..poor baby....
He should not b emailing his ex-ANYTHING!
Not even a free ecard x-mas greeting!!
Rule #1 no single ladies within 100 feet of your man.
Your relationship is STILL going through ups n downs there is a third part to this saying: OUT!
Don't make a big issue out of this...when u can press the "this is spam" button....
`and another friend made
2006-12-05 08:57:08 · answer #1 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the "spam" suggestion. However, your relationship is already doomed. Rarely does a guy have doubts, contact with his ex (or "roommate" as he's probably told you), and only female friends but still believes he should stay with you. The best you can do is build up your self-esteem, know that you have one of the world's best natural resources, and be prepared for the inevitable.
2006-12-05 11:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's just awful. i hope it's a misunderstanding. there's two ways to see this. one may be that the girl is completely off and jealous. two may be that he IS tired of you but is too chicken to do anything about it. i know this sounds corny, but set him down and talk to him about it. use your discretion on whether to bring up the email, but definitely discuss the issue. you deserve the truth.
2006-12-08 08:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋