My sister is in a committed relationship with a guy that has sexual dysfunction and can't meet her needs. He triesShe talks to me all the time about it, and I don't know what to tell her anymore.
I don't think it's right - but she's desperate at this point.
She just wants to find someone for the physical part only, because the rest of their relationship is good. They've been engaged forever but she keeps pushing back the date because of this.
What do you think?
2006-12-05 08:44:15 · 11 answers · asked by Recruiter 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think that if you really love someone it should not matter life is more than just sex . I know plenty of women who are in sexless marriages and they are perfectly happy . I mean she must have known about this for a long time and now she wants to break it off. that is just plain wrong . Please tell her to reconsider. okay . good luck and god bless and happy holidays.
2006-12-05 08:48:05 · answer #1 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong. If your sister loves him then she should talk to him about what is going on and maybe they can go see someone who can help them work this out. She does not need to keep on pushing the wedding date back because of this, if she truly does love him, she needs to talk to him and let him know what is going on and how she feels.
2006-12-05 08:49:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that she should love him and respect him regardless of hi inabilitys. Love isnt about sex she needs to respect the fact that he has a condition he cannot control and if she loves him she will just accept that and love him as a person. other wise leave because clearly the relationship is not as strong as she thought.
2006-12-05 08:47:47 · answer #3 · answered by LT. DAN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never right to cheat no matter what the circumstances. You can make yourself believe it is at the time but it really isn't and someone will get hurt in the long run.
2006-12-05 12:57:37 · answer #4 · answered by curious_59 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think its wrong, imagine how hurt he would be. if the rest of the relationship is good why cant she support him through this and see about him getting medical help. sex is an important part of a relationship but theres help out there
2006-12-05 08:48:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First , if she cheat on him because of his problem now. What will happen when they get marry she will continue doing. I think she should let him now, it's not right to cheat on anybody espescially if she love him. Tell her to be honest with him, because he desire better.
2006-12-05 09:00:41 · answer #6 · answered by angle2005star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's that in sickness and health clause. If she can't keep it, she needs to end it and move on.
2006-12-05 08:46:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can get help for that. if she is in love with him she shouldn't be worried about that! love and sex have nothing to do with each other.
2006-12-08 04:38:47 · answer #8 · answered by *Baby Love* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy some battery operated toys or move along.
2006-12-05 08:48:18 · answer #9 · answered by mikeyditka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to move on
2006-12-05 08:48:26 · answer #10 · answered by Brian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋