i found out im pregnet nd ma momsz nd every one does not agree but my best friend because im responsible for my reactions i dont want the baby because i think is cool i want 1 because i've been wanting one for a long time and my parents told me that they are going to tell cps or someone dat they dont want me to be in the house if i pla to have the baby so can i really get taken away from my family and can i live with a friend with out my parents acception?
2006-12-05 08:43:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Go to social services and put the baby up for adoption. If you want to be with a baby, get a babysitting job. Raising a child 24/7 is not just babysitting--it takes a lot of maturity to make it through the tough times. An adult married couple is much more prepared to handle raising a baby than you are (still a child yourself).
2006-12-05 08:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if your parents could just throw you out like that without sighning away their rights. I would like to offer you some advice though. It is your decision but I don't think you understand how hard it is to raise a child. I don't mean to offend you or upset you but you are still a child yourself and you need to focus on being a child. I'm glad you don't want an abortion but maybe you should consider giving it up for the sake of the baby. You should really talk to a counselor before you make any decisions. Remember what you decide affects you your family and a completely innocent child that did not ask to be brought into this world. It deserves an enviorment where it can thrive and be given all the necessities in life. If you think about it the courts may deem you unfit to raise the baby alone and take it into foster care until they deem you ready to raise the child then it'll probably be bounced from home to home. If you allow it to be adopted it will be given to a family that will love it and care for it the rest of their lives. Whatever you decide may god bless you and that baby and good luck. I hope things work out for you.
2006-12-05 09:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by lil sis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thought your comment you have been waiting a long time was funny.......your ony 14 how could you be waiting a long time.........your just a baby yourself you cant take care of a baby. Think about what kind of life it would have. How are you going to pay for it when legally you cant even have a job because you are too young??? Also your parents have say in all your legal and medical choices until you are 18...other wise its child services..
Just an FYI on how much babys cost
normal vaginal delivery with out problems $10,000.
but you are bound to have problems because you are so young
The average ultra sound is $275
Average check up $175
How do you plan to eat? Take your baby to the dr. if it needs it and pay for that???
Formula can cost up to $75 a month
Diapers the same.....
not to mention you need;
crib-$100
baby clothes-$75 at least
BOttles and nipples-20
baby wipes- are $5 per case of like 100
diaper creme-$10
baby lotion-$5
baby shampoo-$3
blankets-$20
i could keep going but im getting board
Also you just think its some game of house...do you even know what happens when you deliver a baby??
Your vagina actually rips or the doctor cuts it...then you have stitches and holy hell that hurts.
Be smart and listen to your parents...give the baby up for adoption so it can at least have a chance at life!! And keep your legs closed and your pance on your are far to young to even be having sex
2006-12-05 09:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, your parents cannot kick you out if you are under 18, that would be child abuse. Second It depends on state law on what they are allowed to do to your baby, because you are still their child. I would first not worry, you need to call your local social services. They will not take your child, they want to see kids with thier mothers over being in a group home. They will help you with programs and medicade, also food stamps and other things, like housing, or even a safe house, a home for pregnant or underaged children. Keep your child, I would rather see you start of right, then have an abortion. Stay in school. Many areas have a school with free day care for teen mothers, and most are 100% free! Like i said talk to social services, they can help. You can also find Info at your local health dept. People at your church or even school can help, so talk to your councelors or pastors. Good luck, and I hope everything go's well.
2006-12-05 08:54:20 · answer #4 · answered by Holly M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've wanted this baby for a long time??? What, since you're 10??? Man, I only started getting my period when I was 13. That baby should be taken away from you. You have NO idea what you're doing or how you're going to take care of this child and you know who's going to pay the price?? Not you - that baby.
I wouldn't even hire a 14 yr old to babysit...
What is this world coming to???
2006-12-05 08:58:28 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥Mrs SSG B♥♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, You can still get a guy at 16 with a baby. It's not easy but it can happen. But dont worry about guys right now. You need to worry about taking care of both you and your baby. I was 15 when I had my daughter and a few guys were still very much interested in both me and my child. I am now 17 and married to a very loving and wonderful man. It just takes time darling.
2016-05-22 22:03:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok 1st off...your parents cant call cps on you..if anything they will be the ones getting in trouble for not being able to handle the situation like a NORMAL human being...& threatening to kick you out & such, well they can kick you out...but only if you have somewhere stable to go...like a family members or something of the sort...also since your pregnant there are several programs you can get on so that you can support your baby since your too young to support yourself...TANF, WIC, FSP, & i believe DHSH (or something like that), etc...if you look into those depending on what state your in you could get aproved easily...also im not sure about the law or age in your state that you can get emancipated at but that would also be an option if they decide they dont want you in their house anymore...anyways...im 17 & im pregnant & im more then happy if you want to email me or anything...i could help you to the best of my abilities...seeing as you more then likely dont live in the same state & seem to need help with this situation ;)
well i hope this helps a little bit
2006-12-05 09:09:08 · answer #7 · answered by Twinkle in My Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously it is not against the law to have a child. However you should think of how you will raise the child once it is here, beig 14 yu cannot work late or may jobs at all in many states. You cannot drive, how will you get to work get your child to a sitter take care f your new family. I would consider adoption. There are plenty of parents like myself who would love to help out a young mother.
I Hope This Hlps!
Amy
2006-12-05 08:47:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The chances of you getting to stay with a friend are pretty slim. Getting put into a foster home is a possibility. You may want to seriously rethink keeping your baby. I was 17 when I had my oldest and it was very hard even though I had my parents there to help me. Adoption is a very good option you might even consider an open adoption.
2006-12-05 08:49:00 · answer #9 · answered by momof3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get help from ministries that house and help pregnant girls. Check with your local churches to see if they know of one in your area. Also, look under Pregnancy Services in the yellow pages of your phone book.
Be aware that homes for girls like that often provide a great deal, but do require that you follow their rules in living there, etc. They will help you through the pregnancy and learning to care for the baby, etc.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-05 08:49:29 · answer #10 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋