I keep going out with my close female friend,(in touch practically everyday) we go to dinner, lunch together and for drinks in the evening. We’re ATTRACTED to each other, flirt with each other, we’re in touch practically everyday, can only open up too me, feels very comfortable with me, enjoys spending time with me,we trust each other etc. She doen’t like it when I mention other girls that had caught my eye, she changes the subject ASAP.Recently she thought that I started dating a girl and she ignored me for a week.Was this jealousy or just a coincidence?My behaviour DID NOT change towards her+I'm not actually dating anyone.Was told she is happy for me,why wouldn’t she ask about this girl,seeing she’s a good mate?
I told my close female friend how I felt. I also asked her if she FELT anything towards me at all, ever.She replied: "I never feel nothing for anybody and every individual means something to me in their own unique way.Thats all I'm going to say" WHAT SHE MEAN??
2006-12-05 08:43:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She says this is what she means-won't go further into detail!
2006-12-05 08:48:28 · update #1
well shes giving you alot of mixed signals but basicaly i think that she was just being jealous and i think it might have hurt her alittle bit maybe she felt like you were leading her on or something but if that wasn't the case you should totally tell her that. she must have had feelings for you and she probley still does but just doesn't want to be lead on again and for her quote i think it was just kinda like saying i like you but as a friend but i think that she likes u more than that and just doesn't wanna say it but maybe you should take her to dinner and acutully sit down and discuss things even if the a relationship does not happen you wouldn't wanna lose a good friend but the advice i give u is "To go get your girl"
well i hope that my advice helped
2006-12-05 08:50:58 · answer #1 · answered by diamondlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl has been hurt in a bad way emotionally. She's afraid of you so she keeps you only as close as SHE wants so that she's in control of the situation. Sounds like she really does want more but that she's afraid to take that leap. She told you that she's happy for you only because it was the right thing to do. She knows that she has no hold on you when it comes down to it & that telling you that was the right thing to do. It probably wasn't how she really felt at all, but she's not opening up for some reason. Maybe you should be open & honest with her some more & see where it goes. Otherwise, you are stuck in the friend zone until she is/if willing to let go. Good luck~
2006-12-05 17:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by Jaysangl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's got the hots for you hunny and she's not going to treat you right now. For some reason she is ignoring her true feelings towards you and only she knows why. She's being very cold about it so that makes me think I'm right about her. Don't ask her no more about her feelings towards you. Just go ahead and ask her out on a date. What do you have to lose? You know she wants you!!! Good luck with her cuz she seems to be cold right now and maybe only you can melt her!!!????
2006-12-05 16:52:06 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants you to havethe courage to ask you out. She likes you and she wants to go out with you, but hses in the same position as you are, she doesnt know if you like her.
You need to tell her htat she is the only one you like and teh only one you want to go out with. Then ask her out.
We women do mess with your head so that we do not end up being embarrassed. Just ask her out. If she says no, well you've already told her how you feel, and then you can end this whole torment. If she says yes then whoopeee, hooray you have a girlfriend.
2006-12-05 16:53:19 · answer #4 · answered by devil_pixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she really has feelings for you or she wouldnt get jelous when you mention another girl. Tell her you want to try a relationship that you have never felt for a girl like you feel for her and you think there is something between you. I think she will go out with you. good luck
2006-12-05 16:53:09 · answer #5 · answered by tcameron_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she is a bit of a complicated lady, so really you need to ask her straight out, get of your chest and then you shell have all the answers, you don't know until you ask , good luck and god bless.
2006-12-05 16:57:31 · answer #6 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you. Flirt some more, then tease her a little, then let her off the hook and kiss her. Don't make it a difficult thing, keep it fun, just tease her like you've known for ages and you're taking the lead.
2006-12-05 16:55:43 · answer #7 · answered by Dirty_Idea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just said that 2 confuse u. Trust me i should no. I can tell she likes u wit the info u gave. She's apparently ta jealous type. Especially if she changes ta subject right away when u talk bout other girls. If u need more advice on wat 2 do just click my avatar and click contact JoJo.
2006-12-05 16:51:26 · answer #8 · answered by JoJo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you, but is scared that she will lose you as a friend if her feelings are not reciprocated. maybe if you told her that you really liked her, rather than asking her first, she would probably confess the same towards you. but what about the girl you are dating?
2006-12-05 16:52:35 · answer #9 · answered by Naveen S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you but doesn't probally know how to act on it. Does she know that you like her?? if not try telling her. Sometimes when people are shy they find it hard to explain their feelings and put a defensive wall around themselves. If you don't go for it you will never know.
2006-12-05 16:59:26 · answer #10 · answered by Jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋