im bi but have not came out yet and noone wants to date me bc of it!im looking for someone in my area but im afraid that once i tell them im not out they will either not date me or even tell people i know what do i do?
2006-12-05 08:43:12 · 5 answers · asked by jordan 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
if u try to date girls who are out, they will be upset bc they wont be able to be free with u in public....i know. it sux. i say u come out. sure there will be assholes, but you'll cut all the crap out and find out who truly loves u 4 u.
2006-12-05 08:48:48 · answer #1 · answered by Oscar S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you are likely to find more who are out and want to be out. The people who are not out yet are the ones more likely to respect your wishes in keeping in the closet.
However, If they really cared about you and thought of you as a person and not just as a bedmate, then they should be patient and respect your wishes.
Sounds like you just haven't met the right person yet.
2006-12-05 09:01:25 · answer #2 · answered by joannaserah 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its gonna be hard cuz the girl i am wit know wasnt out and she gave me a hard time cuz we had to hide our feel around people but she wanted me to go everywhere with her but eventually she grew out of it nnot we do whatever where ever. So find sumone wo love u for u and they will wait until u are ready.
2006-12-05 08:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by Nina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, but you've got to be careful with family as always. some families aren't accepting, and you don't want to end up in a mess there.
Still, it's infinitely better being out.
2006-12-05 08:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by Modern Jesus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because you're not out yet. If you're not going to be yourself, then what's the use in living.
2006-12-05 11:32:44 · answer #5 · answered by ttjakt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋