i told my friend that i liked her more than a friend 2 weeks ago but she didn't feel the same. she said that it got weird for her because she's new to relationships (never had a bf and i'm the only guy friend that i know she knows well) and now she doesn't want to be friends or talk anymore.
a day after i told her about my feelings, i sent her an email saying sorry for causing the awkwardness and asked her if we could still stay friends. she said "No" 5 days later after she thought about it. so we both said our goodbyes to each other through emails. i really want to talk to her in person about this... but can't because she doesn't want to.
she is leaving for a holiday on saturday this week and won't come back until end of jan next year. should i call her to say "goodbye and have a nice trip"? or just get her cousin (my friend) to say that for me? or just not do anything?
2006-12-05 08:37:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
send her an e mail let her know you miss her freindship and tell her to have a great hloiday and maybe ask if you can meet up after for a chat good luck with this k
2006-12-05 08:42:08 · answer #1 · answered by kitten6444 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is easy er to just leave things be. But then the feeling that you have is unbearable. The whole wanting to get in touch but actually doing it cause of fear she may or may not get back in touch with good or bad news.
But what I suggest you do is just send a simple e-mail. Nothing
too deep. Just a hi hope you have nice holiday take care and then your name. That's all you have to write.
Speaking from a similar experience i was on the same end as your friend. It took me over a year and a tragic accident to relies i needed my friend more than ever even though we had not spoken in over a year.
2006-12-05 16:48:52 · answer #2 · answered by Bonnielass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call her and say goodbye.
She sounds uncomfortable and unsure of herself, but this will ease as time passes. she obviously likes you as a friend, and to lose that friendship would be sad.
Call her and wish her a good trip, telling her you know she'll have fun. Don't even bring up the whole awkward moment. She will want it to be forgotten. Maybe she'll think better of ending the relationship while she's gone and want to see more of you when she gets back.
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2006-12-05 16:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by halarious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. She said she didn't want to be friends any more. Respect her wish. You wouldn't be able to convince her otherwise. However, you could send her an email wishing her safe trip and good holidays, and when she is back email her to check in on her.
2006-12-05 16:41:34 · answer #4 · answered by peanutty_gallery 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go for now. If she wants to contact you she will. I know it is hard and the urge to pick up that phone is a tough one to resist. Maybe the time away will help her confusion. Eventually you guys Will run into each other and that could turn out to be the opportunity you need to get your closure but for now I would let it lie
2006-12-05 16:40:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, just let it be, she'll realize on her ow what a good friend you are and will call you don't push her further than you already have. Sorry this has happened to you
2006-12-05 16:41:00 · answer #6 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is just avoiding coming out with her true feelings. she definetly needs to talk to you. i would say goodbyes; don't let someone else do it. it will have more impact if you do it. that is ashame that she reacted that way. i cant imagine the curage it took for you to do that. good luck!
2006-12-05 16:41:54 · answer #7 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have your cusin say that, cuz if u call her, then things will most likely get VERY awkward on the phone. Plus then she'll know your thinking about her without you telling her that.
2006-12-05 16:41:40 · answer #8 · answered by ~♥~ I ∫Ôvέ Årt ~♫☼♥ ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i was in a similar situation just try to talk to ha and convince her to talk to she is probably confused and thinks she cant afford anything going wrong but just talk to her as time goes on little bye little and then she will probably come around
2006-12-05 17:18:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems that you have already tried to do the right thing. you told her you were sorry. it is her loss now not to have you as a friend.
2006-12-05 16:52:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋