Flat chested ;(?

Question

i am in 7th grade and all the boys always think about boob sizes. I am not developed to much in the chest. ALL THE OTHER GIRLS ARE! it's not fair!! I am very pretty (i've been told) but boys just don't pay attention to me! This kid said "No girl deserves to be flat" and everyone looked at me!! I know I will develope soon I mean I am still young but it just seems that it's all boys care about in 7th grade?

is that true?
has it happened to you?
any type of bra that will make me bigger!!?

Answer please?!

Answer 1

Yes unfortunately guys do think about that. I remember because I had the same problem. And then came the summer.....boy were they surprised when i came back to school!! Then they all wanted to talk to me - I would not sugggest a bra that is not all you, the embarassment when discovered will be far worse. I wish i could tell you they get better as they get older..LOL but they don't

Answer 2

Dont worry about this. The bigger a girls chest is the more itll droop as they age. And it dosent take long to age in that department. I was an A cup until 8th grade,I was 14,then I was a B,I later grew into a C in high school. Im back to a B cuz I lost weight. All those boobies are is fat,nothing else. Your beautiful and not all males even care. I know a couple guys personally that prefer a very small chest.

Answer 3

I'm so small that I can't even fit in a A cup. I really should be wearing a trainer bra, and I'm in my 20s! When I was growing up, all my friends talked about having to buy bigger bras and all the boys were checking them out... I felt really left out and like some kind of freak.

But let me tell you how wonderful life gets after 7th grade... I just got married recently to a handsome, smart man who actually makes 3x what I do, and when I apologized to him about how tiny my boobs were (because I thought all guys like a huge rack) he admitted how he'd always loved smaller breasts - "You don't need more than a handful!" he says. I know that sounds weird now, but believe me: plenty of guys like smaller breasts. They just think they're not supposed to!

If you do want to look bigger chested: invest in a couple really, really good push-up bras, like from Victoria's Secret. Get one with underwire and padding. I wouldn't recommend stuffing since that can easily slip or fall out... and you don't need that! Keep in mind, too, that while there are some clothes you won't look as good in (like some kinds of dresses and sweaters) there are others you'll look great in (like tank tops and button-ups). Just dress for your body type and wear what makes you feel great!

Answer 4

Here's the problem. You want to be noticed at your age by boys and that is normal. However, there are guys out there that look at other things. Legs, Bottom, Face and my Favorite Personality. What does it matter if a woman has big boobs, if she has a bad personality. When the facination of big boobs goes away your stuck with a mean or unhappy woman. I prefer a woman with a great personality, funny and a lot of fun to be around. When I married my wife, she was very flat, we joke about her wearing a peanut shell and a rubber band to cover them up, it's a family joke and we both laugh about it. I was the most popular guy in high school and she was the most unpopular girl. See ? None of that matters when you get out of school. All in all, there are wonderful guys out there that will love you for your personality and not your boob size. If they just want big boobs, they are very shallow and that is a guy you DON'T want. Just be yourself and the right guy will come along.....Trust Me !!!

Answer 5

Buy a bra with padding. Be glad you are developing slowly rather than too quickly - I was a double D at age 12 and had to shop in the women's department because in the early 70s, there were NO shops for larger pre-teens and teens! In other words, I never got to wear the cool, in-style clothes that my friends were wearing! Plus, much older guys were always hitting on me. I hated it and wished I was flat chested!!!

Answer 6

7th grade??? Thats too early, you need to give it time, ask them if they have a chest? Not a boys chest but a mens chest. @ That grade guys are very imateur. Dont worry about what other people have to say, be happy being you and you shouldnt change your appearence to make them silly boys happy.

Answer 7

If you're in the 7th grade, don't worry...it's not like you are done growing! 7th grade is just 7th grade; by the time you're an adult, whatever size you are, someone will find it attractive. Plus, you're a bit too young to be worrying about this :)

Answer 8

I say: Be happy with the body that God gave you! Don't try to change it. Your breasts will get bigger when they do. Take my advice: It's better to be a flat than to be too big! I read a book about adolescents and it said that guys around the seventh grade are usually concerne with girl's bodies, while girls think about guys' personalities. Guys will mature someday. God only knows when.

Answer 9

I wish I had your problem in 7th grade. relish the lack of back pains while you can. I had very large breasts growing up and believe me I got picked on more than the flat chested/late-bloomers did.

there is nothing that will help, don't go the bra/stuffing route since it will be obvious that your faking it.

Answer 10

All you can do is wait. It's not the most important thing in life. Everyone has a flaw and there's no point in focusing too hard on this one.

If it helps, someone once told me 'never let an a**hole take up two seconds of your day.