Im mean I see it all the time... Men look at me when there with there wife and three kids?? I know I'm beautiful. But why does my man do it?? I guess I feel like he wants me to be better? Or that I'm not good enough and i try so hard to be... Why do you do it?? Cause I know you all do??
2006-12-05 08:30:24 · 16 answers · asked by LeighAnne K 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
They do it because they're not dead, honey. That's all. Don't feel so insecure about it. The men who look at you are looking because you're aesthetically pleasing. Same with your man - noticing a beautiful woman doesn't mean he's unhappy with what he's got - how do you know he's not looking, and thinking how lucky he is to have YOU?
2006-12-05 08:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by belmyst 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you have self esteem problems and it shouldn't concern you unless you think he is a cheat. If this is the case get rid of him. You need to do some soul searching and stop being paranoid. Women look just like the men. It does not mean that that person is better than you. That is in your head. Does this make sense? I mean people look.
2006-12-05 09:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I once read that men can't help it, they look, it's in their nature, and women like to be admired or looked at by other men, regardless of being in a happy relationship....
2006-12-05 08:38:30 · answer #3 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because men are very visual--it is one reason they like porn so much. i think it is lack of imagination. lol.
actually, i wouldn't worry if he looks as long as he is not with you when he is ogling other women and as long as all he does is look.
and one more thing, you can't let his looking lower your self esteem. be the best person you can be, in every way and expect your guy to love you for the wonderful person you are.
2006-12-05 08:36:40 · answer #4 · answered by july 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I look at girls, than means I'm physically attracted to them. Even if I was married it doesn't mean I won't ever be physically attracted to other women.
2006-12-05 08:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by Maus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I'm looking at other women I'm wondering how I'd look in what they're wearing & if they'd let me try it on.
2006-12-06 08:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all like to look at things that captivate us and the female doesn't even have to be beautiful. Remember, when we look at females, we're picturing them nude and possibly what tricks they're able to perform. :-)
2006-12-05 08:35:36 · answer #7 · answered by KUZIKAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basic primal instinct. Men have been looking at women for thousands of years....a few years of marriage or dating won't change it. You can look, just don't touch.
2006-12-05 08:32:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you've already ordered, doesn't mean you can't still look at the menu.
2006-12-05 08:32:22 · answer #9 · answered by Geoff S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because we always want to se something different...everyone does...but thats my theory
2006-12-05 08:32:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋