2006-12-05 08:25:42 · 15 answers · asked by carole H 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Time for a new boyfriend.
2006-12-05 08:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps you need to find a more commited relationship before considering having children. You two just aren't on the same page. Having a child can make a good relationship better, and a bad relationship worse. If you two don't want the same things out of life, then since he is only your boyfriend, perhaps its time to move on...and in your free time, take some English and Grammar courses at your local Community College...
2006-12-05 16:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♥Mrs SSG B♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wait... you wait unil he's ready and you are too. My husband once told me he's never getting married (marrie 3 years now), my husband once told me he didn't want kids (12 weeks prgnant now).
Although, even if he never would have came around... I NEVER would have gotten pregnant by fooling him (and I've told him that). Because, if they aren't ready for it there's no sense in having a child that won't get the best parenting out of both partners. If you have a chile and you get pregnant on purpose and he doesn't know it... he may resent you and the baby.
Wait until the time is right... there's no sense in rushing it!
Good luck!
2006-12-05 17:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by kista_1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a couple and your goal is to see eye to eye and Pick your battles. Sometimes its worth the fight or whether you want subway and he wants olive garden but this is A big deal..Unless you both are on the same page then Bringing a child in this world is hard enough. I would wait till you both are as stoked to plan on getting pregnant.....
2006-12-05 16:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by Maynard3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you need to start looking for someone new who you can settle down with an make a family with..
OR ..
Wait until he's ready.. because you're going to be miserable having a baby with someone who doesn't want a baby.
2006-12-05 16:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to finish your High School education before you start producing kids with a "boyfriend".
2006-12-05 16:32:40 · answer #6 · answered by Jen G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not ready yet, maybe he's too young, how long have you been together, how old are you?
If you definetly want children at some point and he really doens't maybe you need to evaluate your relationship and decide if you can stay in it without children.
2006-12-05 16:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by Natalie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he dont want one and you do find someone who does or just wait til he asks you to get married then lets see what happens i think you should get married first but who am i to judge i got married after my daughter was born but we wanted to have a baby together like as him and me not just me. Just wait and see
well my uncle has been married for like 7 yrs and my aunt wants a baby and he doesnt i think they might even get divorced.
Good luck
2006-12-05 17:02:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sounds like ur from West Virginia talkin' like that!
C u on Jerry Springer real soon!!
2006-12-05 16:29:09 · answer #9 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It means he doesn't want one. You have to decide if being a
mother is more important to you or if he is.
2006-12-05 16:29:30 · answer #10 · answered by Tina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋