Okay my friend has been coming over and i'm starting to like him. He claims he's straight but people say he's bi and some say he's gay. Me i'm gay. already have massaged his upper body starting at his back and going to to his neck and back down playing with his nipples. I got all the way down to his belt and unbuckled it then he said he had to go pee then he came back and got on myspace like nutin happend. Then just yesterday I slept with him. I didn't have sex with him but I held him very close to me. Like i was exactly contoured to his body he was in front and I was in back. Before we went to bed I gave him a long massage just his back. Then like at 12pm the next day I massaged him again and i was feeling on his butt and he wasn't telling me to stop or anything he just sat there he says his back hurts thats why he wants massages but he acts like nutin when I feel on his but and everything. I should I move on with this relationship. I already have this question looking for new answer.
2006-12-05 08:17:08 · 10 answers · asked by yugisdaddy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ask him if he wants to watch some porn... straight porn... so he doesn't get too uptight. Sit close to him as you both are watching, and if he gets a bulge in his pants, he'll probably let you play with him. Good luck!
2006-12-05 08:23:27 · answer #1 · answered by Jack C 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
First, you will really want to make sure he knows your preference.
You're gay - he's not.
Until he lets you know he is either gay or bi, you might be better off understanding that this is very likely going to end up badly.
You should also be aware that some straight guys don't mind who "services" them - they believe a BJ is a BJ and a hole is a hole. Sorry about the crudness, but that's pretty much what it boils down to. If you're OK with that, then you're on the right track.
I would suggest hiking to somewhere secluded. If he gets tired and wants to rest or needs his leg(s) massaged, you've got more info to go on. Swimming might also do it. After swimming, you're standing there in wet shorts. If you have a place where you both can go to dry off completely and relax (you'd need to plan this out ahead of time), you'll have another opportunity to find out if he's intersested in letting you explore more (and allowing you to do all the work so he can explore more, too.)
Alcohol is another way to allow someone who really wants to do something (but is afraid of the consequences or stigma) to go through with it. Hint here, you won't want him to actually be drunk, just enough so that he has the "excuse" in case he needs an "out" later on.
The long and the short of it is this... you want to be sure he knows about you. 100% sure. He may think you're just experimenting. Believe it or not, people who should know things going on around them are often too close to the situation to be able to think clearly. Try not to take advantage of him regardless of his condition (tired, sore, drunk, high, whatever). And above all else, realize that until he 'fes's up to you about what he's expecting here - you need to procede as though he's straight and just letting you please him.
2006-12-05 16:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by stevegoryan 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Oh heck its getting me Hot just thinking about it,
i think you should take it slow,
he does know you are Gay right? Make sure you say so,
and talkabout other guys who are cute , to kinda get him jealous,
see if he wears sweat pants and you know kinda wiggle em down,
But you know your gonna have to give him aBJ a few times before he reciprocates.
I would use some baby oil the next massage and get him to unbuckle his pants,
and the next time he sleeps in your bed, make amove, when he is pretending to be asleep, this way he can pretend he didn't know ect..
just press into his backside with your *****, and put your hand on his Nutsack and stick shift.
see if he pulls away.
if not go for the gold,
and see if he'll jerk you off if not more.
Good luck Sweetie.
its hard for guys to admit they are gay or Bi,
it sounds like he is playing hard to get to me.
We women do it all the time.
2006-12-05 16:33:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It doesnt sound like he is very interested. Of course he likes the attention, but it sounds like he is letting you on. Is he massaging you in turn?? I hope I am wrong, but this is typical behavior of a mo-ped man. (mo-ped men treat you good when nobody is looking, and act like they never hooked up with you when there friends are around.....you know, like a mo-ped is fun to ride when your friends arent looking).
2006-12-05 16:22:40 · answer #4 · answered by Mystie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ya u should carry on with this................. if ur feelings r true u should go ahead................... Remember Luv ur luv in such a way that she finds no better place to stay but even then if she manages to get away hey dude its time to turn ....GAY
2006-12-05 16:25:24 · answer #5 · answered by coergang 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I concur, sounds like he's enjoying it but is too shy to admit so. Move on up a step and ask him.
2006-12-05 16:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by Modern Jesus 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just keep going gradually, if he isnt stopping you it sounds like he is afraid to admit he likes it..
2006-12-05 16:20:42 · answer #7 · answered by me :) 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe ask him if he is curious about this kind of thing and it may possibly work out for you!!!!!!!! :) good luck
2006-12-05 17:55:08 · answer #8 · answered by masterflagman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that u will marry a nice girl ang show him that u r serious by marrying her !
2006-12-05 16:27:30 · answer #9 · answered by arabwolfe 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your gay, except it!
2006-12-05 16:22:11 · answer #10 · answered by Poker Face 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋