I was watching this show on discovery or something.
Anyways it was talking about female vs male sexuality
and h ow a guy theorized that the female really choses
the mate not the male, just like in the animal kingdom
the females chose the mate.
Can anyone explain this to me better ?
2006-12-05 07:52:12 · 11 answers · asked by Bijorn the Viking 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Ok i dont want to hear about your life experiences people, i want to hear about the science of it, and how the animal kingdom relates to our own mating system .
2006-12-05 08:06:41 · update #1
This isn't always going to be true, but in general yes that's how it works. Normally a guy makes it known to the female that he likes her. He may tell her, ask her out, or simple act goofy when she is around. She has the power at that time, she can say yes or no; thereby choosing which guy to take. That doesn't mean she can choose a guy at random and get him, atleast not for sure, but she can choose from the pool of men who have made their interest known. Just like the animals the male makes his interest known and then the female chooses the one she likes best.
2006-12-05 08:02:50 · answer #1 · answered by eber3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No women do not choose their mate, are you kidding? Ask any woman of the men she has slept with how many she wanted and or was truly attracted to. If she is honest and has had a few partners I bet less than 20% were men she wanted. I swear I will send you $20, screw that $100 dollars through the mail if I am wrong.
2006-12-05 16:03:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe they do. A man will fall for most any female that strokes his ego and makes him feel good about himself. My friends and I did an experiment in high school with this, and sure enough I was right. It took about 6 months and we tested it in church, malls, bars (the ones we could sneak into) and sporting events. It was a lot of fun and we actually learned quite a bit.
2006-12-06 14:30:16 · answer #3 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A female has a bunch of guys interested in her, so she choses one. No big mystery. If she doesn't have a lot of guys interested in her, she will be less choosey. It's a good test of her character as to what criteria a popular girl uses to sort out which one she will choose. But it's not as if the guy has no choice. He choses which girl he is competing for. And if there aren't any girls worth competing for, he looks someplace else. ;-)
2006-12-05 16:03:34 · answer #4 · answered by fishman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well lets say you like a girl right? so you court her by calling, flowers, dating. In the end she either says Yes, or, No. Usually woman have more than one man going for them at once, just it depends on who "courts" her better, to her standards. That is how the woman chooses, we choose from the men that choose us... hope that helps
2006-12-05 16:04:38 · answer #5 · answered by allaboutme_333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No as a woman I always had to take the guys who wanted me. I never got the ones I wanted. It only happened a couple of times where the guy that wanted me was the one I wanted back.
2006-12-05 15:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Female lions dont choose their mates. The big boy comes in and takes what he wants..
2006-12-05 15:54:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't believe that. I believe the man is the one who chooses. It obviously has to be a mutual attraction and connection, but I believe the man is the one who chooses and initates.
2006-12-05 16:01:15 · answer #8 · answered by q-n-a caka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother always said that man chases woman until she catches him!!
2006-12-05 16:00:16 · answer #9 · answered by Scooter Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes they choose them or the other way around
2006-12-05 16:06:28 · answer #10 · answered by shantel_wltrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋