i will make this quick..im very over compulsive about having a spotless home..its ruining my life...my husband is always messing so im constantly yelling..this is not fair to my infant daughter..i honestly feel like changing the locks and never letting my husband back in..i know this is awful to feel this way but i just might do this tonight..i need your tips on how i can deal with this, right now my way of dealing with this is crying like a child and screaming..i dont want to live like this anymore but i cant stand to clean for hours then turn around and hafta clean all over again because of my slob husband...please help!!
2006-12-05 07:50:50 · 6 answers · asked by kyras_mommy121205 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
gold what the hell are u talking about? get a job??? i fuuckin work u silly cuuunt!! are u kidding? if i sat home all day i dont think cleaning would bothor me that much would it?
2006-12-05 07:54:23 · update #1
sit down and have a heart to heart with your husband. Does he realize how it is affecting you? i know from experience that after a certain point people will tune the yelling out. speak kindly with him and let him know how it is stressing you out.
it sounds as if you have Obsessive Compulsive Disorder... go talk with a doc or therapist and they can help you!
2006-12-05 07:57:56 · answer #1 · answered by smomus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
KYRA.......stop panicking.
Yes....it sounds like you may have compulsive etc....
There is help.Go to your GP This is the only tip.
My friend......you do need help but not because you are ill....just go seek help and assure your husband that you will do this.
Put away the duster and the hoover. Go to your doc ASAP.
Please.
There ain't nothing wrong with you......but you need a little help.
This is ok. Happens to everybody in one form or another. Go see your doc and tell your husband you are going.
Best of luck sweetie. It's just 21st century **** xxx
Wel Kyra's mum.......sounds like noboby else understands, doesn't it?
Well.....your slob husband probably ain't a slob husband....but the problem is you can't see it. This is the problem.
Take care . You need help......not serious help........just let go a bit.....xx
2006-12-05 08:02:11 · answer #2 · answered by lou b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after reading your statement to gold...I cant help but to hope that Kyra doesn't pick up on your potty mouth. Mercy!! its not that serious. You seem to have a compulsive disorder and unfortunately, you are your own enemy. You need to take into consideration that COD is a very strong disorder and you cant go at it alone. Not to mention, if you take this out on your husband, you may actually be THE CAUSE of your failed marriage, not his sloppy behavior.
2006-12-05 08:03:01 · answer #3 · answered by Chynah D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like O.C.D. but only the appropriate medical specialist can diagnose that. If that is the case then nothing we say can be of any help to you. If you are working your husband should be helping you with the housework but he may be finding your standards just too demanding . Good luck.
2006-12-05 08:09:28 · answer #4 · answered by Ted T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a doctor and get diagnosed. Sounds like OCD.
2006-12-05 07:52:24 · answer #5 · answered by Big Bear 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a job?
maybe see a doctor then he may give you some chill pills?
have a nice christmas, dont make too much mess :)
2006-12-05 07:52:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋