child support and name change?

Question

ok, so my ex wants me to pay for half of his travel expenses to come see his daughter, which I think is crazy. Not only that but he insists on having her take his last name, which will only lead to mockery as is name sounds like a food. He says that if I don't change her name she won't have any claim to any of his estate. He has seen this gorgeous little girl 3 times, less than a week each, and she is 18 months old... Is there any legal basis to changing her last name?

Answer 1

No, if a paternity test proves she is his child she will recieve support and be considered his legal responsibility regardless of what you make her last name. If her father died without a will she would have as much right to his assets and estate as any other biological child. She would also have the right to recieve Social Security survivor's benefits if he died before her 18th birthday. However, her father can draft a will leaving all of his assets to others and none to his daughter, but he can do that rather you change your baby's name or not.

Also talk to an attorney. You are not usually required to pay any transportation to and from a visit. If he wants to see his child then he will be responsible for paying the expenses to make it happen.

Answer 2

I wish I knew that one too honey!