I have a friend visiting my country and we have always been just friends...she is leaving very soon and i feel a knot in my throat, i can't stop thinking of her. All i want is to be around her but when i am its hard to be myself..i turn into a complete nervous dork. I don't think she feels the same about me and it kills me inside to know. She is leaving soon and i know i wont see her for a very very long time, if at all. Am i inlove? what do i do? i'm afraid to tell her cuz i dont think she's into me...... i dont want her to go.
2006-12-05 07:33:24 · 6 answers · asked by bounceboobounce 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
G'day bounceboobounce,
Thank you for your question.
I would take courage and tell her how you feel. You will be kicking yourself for a long time if you don't.
Best wishes to you and your friend.
Seasons regards
2006-12-05 12:41:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you do have a big problem here.
What you should do,is go to a park,sit on a bench,enjoy the view.
Then when you are not as nervous anymore tell her what you feel about her.
She night act surprised ,but if you are good friends,as you say,she will find out anyway.
because if she leaves ,someone else will take her place:that is how the world turns,girl.
you might say no to it now,but you will follow the way you feel and meet a nice other girl.
IF THAT IS NOT WHAT YOU WANT:DON'T WASTE MORE OF YOUR TIME :TELL HER
All she can say is no:there is always the chance she might say yes.
Just talk:it is way to late when she leaves.
I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST:Rob.xxxx
2006-12-05 15:50:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As weird as it sounds...I have been in the exact same situation. Me and a girlfriend of mine have been online friends for over 5 years, when we met it was like heaven and hell. Long story short I told her how I felt, I was dying inside not telling her.
Be honest with yourself and her, if she's a true friend she'll understand and if she doesnt it will suck. But at least you'll know either way. Who knows, maybe she feels the same. ^_^ Good luck love, I've been there.
2006-12-05 15:47:54 · answer #3 · answered by Kass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have 2 open up and tell her u cant be shy. just b yourself and express your feelings 2 her. i know that your main problem is fear of being rejected, but she is not the only person in this earth. and how would u ever know if she is the one if u dont approach her. you have 2 give it a try no matter what. or u will go on in life wishing that u had given it a try
2006-12-05 15:52:38 · answer #4 · answered by Kiwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet heart the best thing i can tell u is to tell her regardless if you think that she is into you or not. She is leaving and you wont see her for a very long time so if she isn't into you then it wont matter but if she is she may arrange sumtin for her so see you again and maybe sooner than you think! Dont loose your chance she may like you.
2006-12-05 15:45:26 · answer #5 · answered by Nina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try finding a pretty boy
2006-12-05 15:52:34 · answer #6 · answered by jmcmeb4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋