2006-12-05 07:25:27 · 10 answers · asked by Leftalone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Joy.
2006-12-05 08:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not specific with the "question". Are you asking how you should feel after your wife left you? If so, look at it as that happening for a reason. Any two people that split up - one or both persons obviously weren't happy. In your case, maybe your wife wasn't happy. It happened for a reason. Not saying it was your fault - we're all human - but just take it one day at a time. Keep yourself busy and do what you gotta do to better yourself spiritually, mentally and physically. Working? Keep working and do the best you can. Don't be anti-social - talk to as many people as you possibly can - the more friends you have, the more easier it'll be for you to deal with this. Get some good adventure books (no romance) if you like to read. Go to church. Register at a health club. There is a lot you can do to keep your plate full. Too much idle time on your hands will just keep you thinking and worrying too much. I wish you luck. Poor guy, you'll meet someone else. You might be better off without her. May not feel that way now - and who knows, maybe yall might end up back together. Things happen for a reason whether it's good or bad. Maybe she needs time to get herself together, who knows. But even if that's not the case, just stay busy and get out there. The more people you meet, the better. Got family? They're there for a reason too.
2006-12-05 15:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by apache_lizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex wanted a divorce for years and played around behind my back for nearly our whole 18-year marriage. he never thought that I was enough or did enough for him. We have three beautiful daughters (whom he virtually ignored for thier whole childhoods). He would always tell me that he wanted a divorce and that he was looking for another woman. I loved him and it broke my heart into a million pieces to hear him say things like that.
Finally, I gave up and left him. I found a wonderful loving and sexy man who is full of integrity and compassion. He makes me feel very secure and happy. I know that he loves me and will be there for me always. He loves my children and is a good father to them - even if they are teenagers. He cares very much for them and they him.
My ex, meanwhile, cried and cried and threatened suicide when I left. This went on for months after I left with him calling me several times a day and begging for me to come "home". I told him to make sure that he left a will and to quit bothering me with his problems - that I was no longer interested. His daughters will not visit him and HATE him. They won't even talk to him on the phone if I ask them to. He has had about six women live with him - the longest for almost two weeks before she left him too. He had a good career, a loving wife and lovely smart children, but he threw it all away with both hands and is now alone and pretty damned sorry. I will be married after the first of the year to the love of my life.
My ex got exactly what he wanted - he's a bachelor now and finding it's not so fun to be a 50-year-old overweight, diabetic, impotent loser!
2006-12-05 15:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by Dovie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My Fiance was married before to a horrible woman- his wife left him NUMEROUS times for other men. He was heartbroken, spent countless hours upset, angry and occasionally cried. He told me that when he finally was away from him and had a chance to collect himself, it was still hard but he was able to pull it together.
I can think it hurts tremendously. He even drove down the freeway one night and threw away his wedding ring- right out the window.
2006-12-05 15:29:14 · answer #4 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Desolate fo course. or jubilant? Depends upon the type of wife he has.
2006-12-05 15:29:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have just been set free of years of bandage, go forth and sow some wild oats.
2006-12-05 15:29:07 · answer #6 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the guy and the situation, maybe rejoice
2006-12-05 15:31:35 · answer #7 · answered by Shocker3:16 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on whether he wanted her to leave or stay. If he loves her or not.
2006-12-05 16:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by shaglemongirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Betrayal, anger, that that biotch doesn't know what she is leaving behind. ETC ETC....
2006-12-05 17:05:21 · answer #9 · answered by Johnboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is offended...
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2006-12-05 15:28:03 · answer #10 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋