Im starting to realize that i am quite happy with just compainonship. ive only been in one real relationship and i was uncomfortable through the whole ordeal, so i finally broke it off. i never had the desire to be intamite with him, but i do miss spending time with him. i could care less about sex all together. does this make me asexual or do i just not like sex and sexual things? i can still find someone attractive, but as far as the sexual part of the relationship is concerned, i dont want it.ever
2006-12-05 06:28:46 · 17 answers · asked by chasingvictory530 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
that kicks ***.
don't let people tell you you have to be one way or another!
you sound like you know who you are and you know what you want.
it is very refreshing.
2006-12-05 06:31:38 · answer #1 · answered by killer boot 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
The interesting thing about sex is that from an objective point of view it is silly and sort of gross. I mean people put so much energy into trying to stick one part of their body into a hole in another person, or vice versa.
So the only reason people have sex is because strong hormonal impulses can override the objective assessment. It sounds like you don't have those impulses. That is perfectly fine. If you feel you're missing something, then you might want to look at hormone therapy, but otherwise I'd say you're asexual but okay with it.
2006-12-05 07:16:52 · answer #2 · answered by Julian A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you haven't had the right person come along. I had this guy that gave me the world but I just couldn't sleep with him. The thought of it disgusted me. It ruined our relationship because he wanted intimacy sexually and I would rather just cuddle-that's all.
Then I met my husband and I never face that problem with him.
Maybe it all depends on the person and how they make you feel.
But it is very possible to be asexual. It happens all the time and there is nothing at all wrong with you.
2006-12-05 06:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by i have a taste for waffles 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I used to think I was asexual too. I wasn't interested in it. But I've got the best guy ever right now, and now I do want it, a lot even. So don't worry too much about it, maybe you're just sick of it right now, and when you meet the right guy, you might want more than friendship.
2006-12-05 06:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by lieselot h 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
We have this saying:for every pot there is a lid.
You just did not find yours yet.
And maybe you are a-sexual.
or maybe your ex was a very lousy lover?
Who can tell?
Just wait till you feel butterflies down there.
It could be the right person.
just give it time girl.
Never considered the fact ,that you could be a lesbian and need a woman's touch?
You never know do you?
greetings:Rob.xxxx
2006-12-05 06:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just haven't been in love, yet. Companionship is usually better for young people any way, since early sex can lead to a myriad of emotional and physical problems later in life. However, some people just have no sex drive. if it continuse into your 20's, I suggest you talk to your doctor about it, its not normal, and may be a hormonal problem
2006-12-05 06:33:14 · answer #6 · answered by judy_r8 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Whatever turns your crank. But it sounds like you need to have your crank turned. Keep on with the search for someone you want to share that part of your life with. Don't make up your mind on this for the rest of your life. Surprises happen.
2006-12-05 06:42:17 · answer #7 · answered by steviewag 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have only been in one real relationship, then that is hard to tell if you are asexual. I suggest trying to date/form more friendships. Don't look for love, it will find you. (winks)
2006-12-05 08:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound asexual to me. You should look in to a support group. There are men and women who are asexual maybe you will find one of them to be with so that you can both be happy.
2006-12-05 06:31:47 · answer #9 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
You know you're asexual when you're not interested in anyone at all.
I am so there too.
2006-12-05 06:41:57 · answer #10 · answered by starrdevine 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋