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There is a person I work with who is studing to be a Minister/Paster and yet is really mean and grumpy. I want to know why this person would choose to be that way when she is persuing a career that is quite the opposite.

2006-12-05 06:14:34 · 9 answers · asked by T-Veen 1 in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Other - Cultures & Groups

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That's not something that's easy to answer. My roommate works under a woman who was studying to become a pastor, and quite honestly is more bitter by 9 am than anyone I've ever met. What amazes me is, a lot of the time, it's the people that have the most going for them that are outwardly the most bitter. And likewise, it's the people that have experienced the most hardship, that are truly grateful for what they have, that are the kindest. I don't know why people are the way they are... just continue to be as kind to her as possible, and don't retaliate with the grumps... :)

2006-12-05 06:18:07 · answer #1 · answered by maddiekay82 2 · 0 0

Because no one has told her, she is mean and grumpy all of the time as you say.

Just because she is going for a career/job as a Minister/Pastor is no sign she will get the job ... she has to be chosen by the membership of a church to be their pastor.

2006-12-05 14:21:34 · answer #2 · answered by ahh4theday 2 · 0 0

my sister is mean and grumpy all the time and her children pay for it everyday! I say mean and grumpy people are unhappy with their lives so they have to take it out on all of us.

2006-12-05 14:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by cutiepie81289 7 · 0 0

Ohh that sucks. What the heck is that about! Everytime shes like that toward you oersonally. I'd say I'll pray for honey!

2006-12-05 14:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by peacfulwar 3 · 0 0

I generally hang face as well. Just my personality.

And believe it or not some people like me for me!!

2006-12-05 14:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by [un]bro/ken 3 · 0 0

some people don't know how to smile an dlive life happy

2006-12-05 14:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by NENA 3 · 0 0

Maybe she is stressed out from her work.

2006-12-05 14:38:12 · answer #7 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0 0

because they have the choice, granted by God and obviously they have given themself to God...question their motive...challenge their faith...

2006-12-05 14:17:36 · answer #8 · answered by The walker 3 · 0 0

Is there a choice?

2006-12-05 14:15:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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